sexual pleasure

On the whole, people who go about sex in a goal- or product-oriented way tend to feel less satisfied with sex and their sex lives.

You should experiment and communicate with your partner and should do the things together and alone that feel uniquely good for both of you -- not just one of you -- at any given time.

A review of the film Orgasm, Inc. about the medicalization of female sexual pleasure in the US and a look into what female sexual dysfunction is and who benefits.