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I Want to Have Sex. He Doesn't. Why Not? And What Do I Do Now?

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by Heather Corinna, Scarleteen.com

January 31, 2012 - 9:59am (Print)

Anyone, of any gender or any age, may not feel like it is best for them to choose to be sexual in a given situation, even when presented with an opportunity for sex, even when that opportunity is with someone they have a strong desire to have sex with.

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Words Matter: Cheers to the FBI for Recognizing How Much

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by Heather Corinna, Scarleteen.com

January 12, 2012 - 4:29pm (Print)

The FBI finally changed its defintion of rape, and while that may seem small, it has the capacity to change things for the better by quite a lot for a majority of rape victims and survivors.

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Worried About Sending Simplistic Messages to Teens About Sex? Then Don't!

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by Heather Corinna, Scarleteen.com

December 22, 2011 - 11:18am (Print)

Should a mom provide condoms for her son or not? What about dealing with times she knows her son and a girlfriend will have a house to themselves? Where's the line between "condoning" sex and being a sexually-supportive parent?

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Condoms Breaking? Ur (Probably) Doin' It Wrong.

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by Heather Corinna, Scarleteen.com

November 30, 2011 - 9:32pm (Print)

Want to do your part to help prevent the spread of HIV this World AIDS Day?  One of the easiest ways we can all do that is to use condoms correctly and consistently, avoiding common mishaps which can result in rips or breaks.

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Get Real! I Gave Him My Virginity, But Don't Feel Like I Got Anything Back

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by Heather Corinna, Scarleteen.com

November 22, 2011 - 9:27am (Print)

What to do when what's supposed to feel like a sexual milestone feels more like a raw deal, including sorting through feelings of upset about a partner's sexual history.

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He Won't Have Sex Anymore: How Can I Change His Mind?

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by Heather Corinna, Scarleteen.com

November 10, 2011 - 5:52pm (Print)

Have a partner who wants to step away from sex with you or take a break? If you're wondering what to do to change that, the only right answer is nothing at all. We need to always respect a person's sexual limits and boundaries, whatever their gender.

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What If No One Else Saves Sex For Marriage?

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by Heather Corinna, Scarleteen.com

November 4, 2011 - 8:35am (Print)

For someone choosing to hold off on sex until marriage, what to do about the fact that most other people, including potential partners, will not have made the same choice? How much should your own sexual ethics and values hinge on those of others?

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How (And Why) to Root for Team Awkward

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by Heather Corinna, Scarleteen.com

October 28, 2011 - 10:12am (Print)

What to do when you're worried about physical intimacy with someone being awkward?  Try to embrace it. Intimacy is often awkward. And that isn't a bad thing.

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Get Real! I Feel Too Tight: Should I Use Painkillers During Sex?

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by Heather Corinna, Scarleteen.com

October 21, 2011 - 12:38pm (Print)

If you're worried in advance about pain with sex that involves vaginal entry and thinking about taking a painkiller, think twice. There are sounder ways to avoid sexual pain and experience pleasure that honor your body rather than numbing it out.

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Get Real! I'm a Guy Interested in Receptive Anal Sex: Does That Mean I'm Gay?

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by Heather Corinna, Scarleteen.com

October 7, 2011 - 8:18am (Print)

Who is curious about, wants or enjoys receptive anal sex? People who are curious about, want or enjoy receptive anal sex. What does that alone tell us about someone's sexual orientation? Nothing.

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