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Sex And The City: Eww It's For Girls!

Sarah Seltzer on June 5, 2008 - 8:00am
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With a flutter of tulle and a flash of bejeweled stilettos, women made history this weekend. We showed up at theaters, beat up Indiana Jones, and demanded that our power as an audience be recognized. If only Sex and the City: The Movie had lived up to the TV show that inspired the box-office barnstorm. But that's a tall order -- this is Hollywood after all.Photo by Keepin' OnPhoto by Keepin' On

Of course, the SATC backlash was underway before the movie premiered: eww, it's for girls, the pundits declared. But box office numbers proved the sexist naysayers beyond wrong. It couldn't just have been Manohlo-clad, Cosmo-swilling party gals buying tickets--there aren't that many of them. Attendees most assuredly included dudes, moms and daughters, the un-glamorous, and plenty of feminists.

After all, the show's brand of feminism was as important to its success as outlandish outfits and sexual positions. Sex and the City's heroines make widely divergent choices ("I choose my choice!" aspiring housewife Charlotte shouts at working gal Miranda during one memorable episode). Women viewers know it can be painful in real life for us to face up to those who live differently, the Charlottes to our Mirandas. SATC allows its characters to feel the omnipresent judgments and conflicts in women's lives, and feel them deeply, in a way that resonates with truths about modern womanhood. But then, as the arc or episode draws to an end, the four characters always accept each other. That kind of unassailable sisterhood is a feminist ideal, even when accented by silly designer shoes.

WARNING! SPOILERS BELOW

Of course, there was no way a two-hour mainstream film would live up to the complexity of the show, which built these themes into six seasons and countless storylines. The film's best moments come after Carrie is pseudo-jilted at the altar, and our four heroines spend a healthy chunk of time onscreen together, trading the kind of insight and banter that made the show so much fun.

Throughout the film, all four stars remind us that they have real acting chops, but Kim Cattrall as an older, more monogamous, and less happy Samantha shines the brightest. Samantha's struggle between her genuine love for her hunky movie star boyfriend and her desire to be independent and free is actually quite poignant and multi-dimensional, and gets to the heart of the show's themes. And Sam's biting one-liners break the onscreen tension without sacrificing emotion, providing the best humor in the film. "Oh, honey, you made a little joke," she says to the catatonically-depressed Carrie who has shown the energy to muster a bad pun about her "Mexicoma." Catrall is hilarious, but she also shows how deeply attuned these women are to each other. (So for everyone who moaned about Catrall holding out for a better paycheck, she deserved it!). I usually prefer Miranda to Samantha, but I thought Catrall was given the most subtle and meaty material, and she tackled it with relish.

As wonderful as it felt to greet Samantha and her crew, and as much as the audience at my screening laughed, sobbed, and hollered at the screen, the movie had some big disappointments. The first one, which has been widely noted, was the subplot with Jennifer Hudson, taking the "Magical Negro" stereotype to a new level. Hudson, as Carrie's assistant Louise, waltzes in, literally helps Carrie clean up her post-breakdown mess, gives her a special "love" keychain, and then disappears back to St. Louis once Carrie doesn't need her anymore. Despite truly gargantuan acting efforts by both Sarah Jessica Parker and Hudson during their scenes together, it shocks me that the producers and writers didn't try harder to throw some window dressing up around Louise's tokenization (memo: it's not that tough: give her some sex scenes, some talent beyond organizing white women's lives), even if they wouldn't put the effort into turning her character into someone real. But mere window dressing wouldn't be close to enough. It may have seemed daunting to create three-dimensional secondary characters in a two hour film, but shouldn't the filmmakers be smart enough to realize what an unfortunate pattern they were playing into?

The film's second significant disappointment was in its portrayal of the characters of Miranda and Charlotte. Both characters, more realistic New Yorkers than their counterparts, actually grew during the course of the series. Miranda transitioned from a too-tough, too-vulnerable go-getter to a more balanced and happy person, while Charlotte let go of her dreams of porcelain domesticity and found a nebbishy but beloved husband and an adopted daughter. In light of those histories, both of these women deserved better storylines than the film gave them: is Charlotte really beatifically content with the life of an Upper East Side wife? Can't Miranda ever be given a moment to be proud of her achievements without snapping, or being punished, as a result of them?

It's no surprise that the movie didn't live up to the show, nor is it a surprise that it was such a huge hit anyway. Women, and men of color, are inured to enjoying films with problematic elements, because otherwise we'd never see movies at all. Despite my own critiques, it was exhilarating to be surrounded by mostly women and hearing the laughter, tears and cheering. Let's hope that the triumph of this film, combined with that of Juno, means that there will more smart movies for women. But more importantly, let's hope that it gives Sex and the City II, and other movies of its ilk, license to be more risky, to be more real, and to include racial diversity that's more than just a gesture.


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4 comments

I know, there are problems. It's a movie not a "film." But, as you said, it was great to feel our power as women and consumers. All this movie mogul whining over all these years about "women won't go to the mooooviiiiesss." BULLSH@#(! Women WILL go if they're enticed. And I don't just mean enticed by shoes and fashion. I mean by stories and characters and themes that they care about: friendship being the most oft-quoted and the most important as far as I'm concerned. So, yes, movie moguls, we WILL go if you can ever get around to making movies about something other than chase scenes.

Submitted by lauram on June 5, 2008 - 1:34am.

"showed up at theaters, beat up Indiana Jones, and demanded that our power as an audience be recognized"

Uh, because Indiana Jones was in week two and SATC in week one. IJ made 3 times as much in week one - and almost made as much in week two. And I guarantee will make more this weekend as SATC does, even though its in week three.

Submitted by JFD on June 5, 2008 - 10:47pm.

Delurking to point out to you, JFD, that SATC blew out the records for an R-rated comedy. It was the best opening for one of those ever.

Submitted by lou on June 6, 2008 - 10:15am.

I saw a few clips from the movie and was very funny, this is a movie i like to see.

Submitted by Koral on June 21, 2008 - 10:47am.