Sunday, May 11 is Mother's Day this year. It is the day that we all attempt to honor and respect the amazing woman who gave us life, the woman who nourished, protected, and loved us. Of course, we should thank our mothers daily, not simply one day a year. We need a world that supports and respects safe and voluntary motherhood, not just with cards, fancy dinners, and sentiment on one Sunday a year, but by respecting our rights every single day.

My incredible 92-year-old mother, Polly Bloom, died last fall. I miss her love, devotion, joy, and feistiness more than words can say. But what will never leave me are the life lessons she taught me. She modestly said that she never really wanted the flowers, perfume, body creams, and jewelry that I gave her over the years. What she loved most was for me to be strong, do good in the world, and to keep fighting for abortion rights, safe motherhood, and reproductive justice for all women.

She -- as well as my beloved dad -- were always so proud of my work. As I near this first Mother's Day without her, my body and soul are filled with a tremendous emptiness. But Polly's dedication and sacrifice have left me with so much love and the belief that I could do whatever I chose and wanted in life.

Polly was an unusual woman for her time and, in many ways, although a small woman, was larger than life. As a first generation American, she was devoted to her family and friends and very proud of her Sephardic Jewish heritage. For more than forty years, she volunteered at the Sephardic Skilled Nursing and Rehabilitation Center in Brooklyn, New York and won awards for her years of commitment. She had a B.A. in Spanish literature from Brooklyn College, loved her first language (Ladino), and nurtured her three children, her husband, and her community.

Moreover, she truly understood what equality and rights for women meant. My mom was denied a therapeutic abortion (fetal demise had occurred) in the early part of the 1950s and that scarring experience caused her serious emotional and physical problems for many years. She was forced to carry a dead fetus in her body for several months because of the oppressive laws and sexist attitudes of that time. This denial of her rights always stayed with her. My feisty mom was very supportive of the idea that no other woman should ever have the same awful experience she had encountered desperately seeking out safe medical care, respect, and dignity. Polly Bloom really understood what reproductive justice was.

Mothers deserve -- and need -- reproductive justice. Reproductive justice is about every woman's freedom to choose to have children and to be able to decide when and under what circumstances these children will be born. It is about the right to quality, affordable, and accessible health care for a safe pregnancy, delivery, and a healthy newborn.

Supporting a woman's right to choose motherhood includes respecting her choices, and providing her with the tools and resources she needs to raise a healthy family. This means day care and family leave, educational opportunities, meaningful employment and livable wages, gender equality, an end to gender-based violence and ensuring a safe and hopeful future for herself and her children. Tragically, in the richest nation in the world, these resources are rapidly diminishing.

Reproductive justice is also the right to choose not to have children, the right to contraceptive choices, the right to medically accurate and comprehensive sexual education, and the right to end an unwanted pregnancy with safe, legal, and affordable abortion care. It is about recognizing that safe and respectful abortion care helps women choose their futures, become better mothers, and build stronger families. It recognizes that women know what it means to be pregnant, to give birth, and to start a family. Women know what it means to continue or to end the potential life growing inside of their bodies and to decide for their current or future families that it is -- or is not -- the right time for a child to be brought into this world.

My dear mother was justifiably horrified at the international maternal morbidity and mortality rates that we discussed. She hated the short-sighted and regressive domestic and international policies of the Bush administration. As she became older, she would increasingly say that she could not understand why so many women and girls died from unsafe births and unsafe abortions in our world. I told her I did not quite grasp it either.

Why do we allow 68,000 women and girls in the developing world to die every year from the brutalities of botched abortions when compassiona and safe medical procedures could easily preserve their lives and health? I don't know, dear mom. I am still trying to figure it out.

I know that if my inspiring mother was still alive, and if I asked her what she would like for this Mother's Day, she would again say, "Keep doing a good job and keep women safe, honey."

What a wonderful way to honor all mothers throughout the world -- with rights and respect. My mom is now gone from this earth, but she will always be in my heart. And I'll continue to listen to my incredible mom and make her proud of me.