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Ultrasounds Like Emotional Blackmail

By Marcy Bloom, GIRE

May 15, 2007 - 8:50am

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Do you frequently believe that you have seen it all in the arena of attacks on reproductive health? And then you realize you can still get surprised?

Well, count me in. According to the Guttmacher Institute, by the end of the first quarter of 2007, just over 1,000 measures relating to reproductive health and rights had been introduced in state legislatures across the nation.

One thousand measures. Wow. What's up with our state governments? Do they think we won't pay attention if these abortion, sexuality-education and contraceptive restrictions (and yes, most of them are restrictions) come upon us incrementally on a state by state level?

Well, we are paying very close attention. One of the more oppressive bills that has popped up in Georgia, Texas and other states would actually force pregnant women to view their ultrasounds before receiving abortions. Talk about attempting to instill fear and guilt in women.

As the executive director of a women's health center for many years, I am fully aware that, per clinical standards set by the National Abortion Federation for its members, abortion providers are encouraged to perform fetal age ultrasounds on all women prior to their abortions. This has evolved as the optimal standard of care in the United States and it is an excellent and safe medical approach. Our staff consistently asked women if they wanted to view the ultrasound. Many did and many did not. Some said that viewing the ultrasound would affirm their decision. Some cried; some stared. Many women stated that they were simply curious. Some said it would be too painful to see their fetus, yet and yet others wanted the ultrasound picture to take with them for their journals or to use in a ritual as part of their healing processes. The choice to see the ultrasound was made by each woman, based on her emotional needs and decision-making process. It was purely voluntary, as it should be.

Christopher Estes, MD, a fellow in family planning at Columbia University in NYC, always offers his patients an opportunity to see the ultrasound. The majority accept. He has never seen a single patient change her mind due to viewing the ultrasound, and these are women of every age, race, and background. The most common reactions he has observed are: "Oh, that's it?" or "Wow, it's really small—not much there."

Kathy, the former director of a clinic in Baltimore, Maryland (she prefers to use her first name only now for safety reasons), had a slightly different approach. She did not offer to show ultrasound images unless the women asked or seemed interested. She describes her approach to patient care as based on trusting women; the clinical approach at her clinic was patient-led. Providing informed consent appropriately, with the level of detail about the fetus guided by the woman, always included the option to view the ultrasound. Like Dr. Estes, Kathy also never saw a woman waver from her abortion decision based on the ultrasound image.

"Jane," a clinic sonographer in the South with more than 17 years in abortion provision (she also requires anonymity at this time), always offers women the opportunity to see the ultrasound. As is true with other abortion and women's health providers, her experience is that most do voluntarily view it. When performing ultrasounds, she gives a brief description of the pregnancy and what she is seeing and measuring. If the woman then chooses to see the image, the woman has been educated and is better prepared for what she is about to look at. If the woman doesn't choose to see it, she has been given accurate and important information that will aid her decision and contribute to learning more about her body and her pregnancy. This is all a key part of the thorough pre-abortion care counseling, accurate information-sharing, unbiased informed consent, and careful medical and clinical assessment of the woman and her pregnancy. "Jane" describes mandatory ultrasound viewing for women considering, or having, abortions as a violation of women's constitutional rights and cruel and inhuman. "Forcing women to view the ultrasound seems akin to rape to me, as is forcing a woman to do anything she does not want to do. Holding her hostage to view the ultrasound as a condition to have her abortion is blackmail."

These and other numerous dedicated providers to whom I have spoken over the years trust that women choosing abortion know what they want and need. Apparently, the legislators of the 1,000 reproductive health-related bills don't. As Dr. Estes says, the voluntary viewing of the ultrasound image of her pregnancy is not a deterrent to a woman when she is making a decision about her life and future. But he knows what clearly is: biased and inaccurate counseling and distorted information full of lies about pregnancy, abortion, and contraception that are designed to frighten and intimidate women from freely choosing abortion, all of which are the experiences of women who go to crisis pregnancy centers. So true!

I have an idea. Let's get our legislatures to focus their next 1,000 reproductive health-oriented bills on regulating crisis pregnancy centers. After all, millions of our tax dollars from the Bush administration's "abstinence-only" efforts goes to these centers around the country and funds the purchase of ultrasounds. Let's make sure that women receive non-evangelical, non-punitive, and truly accurate evidence-based medical information when they go there.

Now, that would demonstrate respect and trust for women, would be non-coercive, and would let women make their pregnancy choices free of fear and intimidation. But, apparently, that is not the goal of our legislators in far too many states. All they care about is mandating medical care, forcing information down women's throats, and robbing respectful choices and quality abortion care from women.


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It seems to me that you are unwilling to consider all aspects of life. You and others like you preach and preach about how narrow-minded others are that don't believe like you do. You continue to use the term "reproductive health" as a defense for every action that a woman may take. You make it sound as though if a woman chooses to have an abortion because she's not ready to raise a child that it's "reproductive health". That situation does not fit the bill for your term.

I'm sure you'll be shocked to know that I'm pro-choice. I'm a father of one with another one on the way. I'm also a person that was born pre-maturely and spent 6 weeks in intensive care. I assure you that I'm a fully functioning perfectly healthy person. My wife and I recently had our first appointment for this pregnancy. At the end of the appointment they listened for the heartbeat but couldn't find one so they sent us to the waiting room where we sat for 45 minutes waiting to get a sonogram. As you can imagine we played every possible scenario through our heads. Once we got in the room they proceeded with the sonogram. Our worries were quickly put to rest and we got our first look at our baby. I imagine you are one of those that would call our child a fetus until it screams for the first time....but that is not the case. We watched our child move around, kick his/her legs and watched the heart beat. It's a time when you can feel the life coming from that little being.

"Jane" says that it's cruel and inhuman to make a woman watch a sonogram before they have an abortion. I guess I'm confused because I don't understand how anyone could watch life happening inside them....legs kicking, heart beating and call that inhuman. A reasonable person would know that a "cruel and inhuman" act would be to deliver a baby all but 4 inches, stick a pair of scissors in its head, open them up and proceed to suck the brains out so the scull will collapse. Of course we all know the 4 inches is so you won't have to call this precious life a "fetus" anymore and commit murder.

I know my words are harsh but I'm allowed to have passion just like you are. I agree that a woman should have the right to abort a pregnancy if it puts her life at risk or even if there is something wrong with the baby that can't be fixed. I struggle with the later one every day though. I would like to think that I'm a strong enough person to raise a child with down-syndrome or worse....but I just don't know.

The ACOG has even suggested that the majority of abortions done for the purpose of saving the health of the woman were not necessary. Forget morality.....it seems as though you have tunnel vision with regards to making sure women get to do whatever they choose rather than what's medically necessary.

My question to you is should a woman be able to use abortion as a form of birth control? Should she be able to abort a healthy life because she wants to?

A good friend of mine was united with his daughter yesterday after more than a year of red tape and $20,000 because he and his wife were unable to get pregnant. There are thousands more just like them that would gladly adopt that unwanted child.

Submitted by Mike on May 15, 2007 - 12:11pm.

I agree that a woman should have the right to abort a pregnancy if it puts her life at risk or even if there is something wrong with the baby that can't be fixed.

 

That is most generous of you. Thanks for sharing your "passion" with the class.

My question to you is should a woman be able to use abortion as a form of birth control? Should she be able to abort a healthy life because she wants to?

Is that really your definition of "abortion as birth control"? That as long as there's some condition present that threatens the wellbeing of a woman or her fetus, abortion isn't birth control? What else could any abortion possibly be, in connection with any pregnancy or when performed for any reason whatever? Anything that prevents a birth is, by definition, birth control.

 

What you have said is that abortion isn't birth control only when it is performed for a Mike-approved reason -- one that lies inside your own very personal comfort zone. But there's no reason, none at all, that the highly personal reproductive decisions of others should not reside within their own zones of comfort -- guided not by your personal "morality," but theirs.

A good friend of mine was united with his daughter yesterday after more than a year of red tape and $20,000 because he and his wife were unable to get pregnant. There are thousands more just like them that would gladly adopt that unwanted child.

I'm glad for your friend and his wife. Still, there is no reason that women should be condemned to compulsory childbearing, to the involuntary servitude of producing children for others against their own will. In times such as these, we have cause to be thankful for the 14th Amendment.

Submitted by moiv, Talk To Action on May 16, 2007 - 2:10am.

"My question to you is should a woman be able to use abortion as a form of birth control? Should she be able to abort a healthy life because she wants to?"

Yes, you arrogant little sh*t.

Because I know - better than you possibly ever could - what works for my life. I enjoyed the career and travel I've had. I love my three kids, my husband, and our family life together. And if I hadn't had an abortion earlier in life? None of this - especially the three beautiful children - would have been the current reality if I had been forced to have the baby I wasn't ready for and didn't want 18 years ago.

Only a pig who'd never personally be affected would suggest that it's a reasonable alternative for a college student to take time off of school, endure the permanent physical health consequences of pregnancy and childbirth, find someplace to exist in that temporary purgatory, give birth, give up a child for adoption, and then resume her life like a normal person. I'm glad I didn't have to. I'd make the same choice again. It didn't have to ruin the man's life, it shouldn't have to ruin the woman's.

What a pathetic, hypocritical little pimple you are with your bleeding-heart cooing over your wife's ultrasound! You think your giddiness over your own fetus means you're now attuned to the mysteries of life and the universe and other women's pregnancies in way that's much more deep than they could ever be. Well, that's only because you're a stupid and unimaginative jackhole and I'm here to disabuse you of your ignorance.

I know more about pregnancy than you and your wife combined. I'm nauseated by people like you who care more about a 6-week-old fetus than an 19-year-old person. I'm thrilled I finished college at an elite school and went on to get a graduate degree. I made the right choice when I didn't sacrifice my education, my future, or the beautiful children I have NOW so that I could have been somebody's rent-a-womb back in 1989.

Also, I'm totally unmoved by the stories of people who pay international agencies to coerce poor young women into giving up their babies just so that they can buy an newborn instead of adopting a foster child in this country. All of you "pro-life" types are alike - at the end of the day you're only pro-fetus, you can't be bothered with the needs and wants of children (or adults for that matter) who might express a thought which could differ from your own.

Submitted by bcc on May 16, 2007 - 11:49am.

Your "elite" education shines bright with all the name calling. Must have been a great school! You sure do seem like a well educated person. Anyone who reads it will be sure to take it for the credibility it's worth. Anger management classes????? Your poor kids. :)

Submitted by A on May 16, 2007 - 12:40pm.

Way to interject yourself uselessly into the dialogue, "A". Presumably the women at your bible college refrain from using language which might offend you. You'd be shocked to realize that such freedom of speech isn't squashed elsewhere. In fact in Amherst, it's actively encouraged - especially when you believe your rights and the reproductive freedom of your daughters are being threatened. I can play hardball on the court or in the conference rooms or on the internet, it's all the same to me. If that meets your definition of a need for anger management, then Pollyanna - I couldn't care less. Go look at your priggish self in the mirror and thank Jeebus you can avoid the playing fields on which you don't belong. & thanks for your worry on behalf of my children, but don't waste your time - they've got me to look out for them, which is why they have no need for the likes of the useless like you.

Submitted by bcc on May 16, 2007 - 2:33pm.

Exactly which example of "name calling" gave you the vapors? Was it "pig" or "pimple" or something else? Was it the use of the english vernacular for what we were all taught as "merde" for our cotillions?

Would "turd blossom" have met with your approval? I understand that's a favorite of the President's and his "elite" education includes both Yale and Harvard...

Or is it that it's only okay for MEN to get angry and use rough language? Because - My stars! Everyone knows WOMEN must be put in their place for doing such a thing!

Submitted by bcc on May 16, 2007 - 3:25pm.

"I guess I'm confused because I don't understand how anyone could watch life happening inside them....legs kicking, heart beating and call that inhuman."

That was not what "Jane" was saying and if Mike would reread the article he would see that. "Jane" wasn't calling the fetus inhuman, but the act of forcing a woman to do something against her will (as a man, Mike does not consider the fact that about 30,000 pregnancies are the result of rape and it could easily be considered "cruel," or "inhuman" to hold down a woman (or how about an eleven year old girl) who was already raped and traumatized enough, and force her to watch an ultrasound.

I wish men like Mike trusted women like you encourage in the article, Mary. He doesn't think about rape or incest and has little concern for women's health. He automatically assumes that intact D and E abortions are the norm (they are not, they were less than 1% percent in the last year recorded) and that abortions occur way later in pregnacies than they actually do -- I mean it would have to be at least into the second trimester for the fetus' legs to be kicking and over 90% of abortions occur in the first trimester.
In addition, he assumes that women are using abortion as birth control (completely ignoring the fact that at least 50% of unplanned pregnanies occur because of FAILURE of birth control that was used).
Anyway, I liked the article. Thanks to Mary and all those mentioned in the article for all the important work you do.

Submitted by Suzette on May 15, 2007 - 12:33pm.

Suzette,

Maybe you should read my reply again....I was clearly asking the question of how "Jane" could think it was inhuman to watch "legs kicking, heart beating".

I apologize for not elaborating on my feelings of pro-choice. I do agree with you that rape and incest are all accounts that women should have the right to choose.

Don't tell me I don't care about womens health...what do you know? I know there are many cases that warrant an abortion. I'm asking you to defend abortion when it's simply used as birth control. When contraception doesn't work and you use abortion as a back-up and you kill that living being....defend that. Our daughter was an unplanned pregnancy ("FAILURE of birth control") and we didn't think we were ready for a child but I can not imagine life without her. I know you put a woman's choice over a life so we'll never see eye to eye but conversing like this is a step in the right direction. You lump me together with men that don't care about women, but you're wrong. If I didn't care about women's health I wouldn't be a strong supporter of this website. There were over 4,000 intact D and E procedures done last year. I guess that's an exceptable number to you since it's only "1%". Estimates are that over 80% of them were perfectly healthy babies....but I'm just a jerk that doesn't care about women so that statistic shouldn't matter?

Maybe instead of hiding behind the age-old excuse that I don't understand and don't care about women you could come to the realization that it's possible to be pro-choice, have the same feelings you do and also be against aborting lives because the rubber broke or you forgot to take your pill.

Submitted by Mike on May 15, 2007 - 1:47pm.

Estimates are that over 80% of them were perfectly healthy babies....but I'm just a jerk that doesn't care about women so that statistic shouldn't matter?

If you care about women then you would take the time to get beyond descriptions of the medical procedure and realize that in the 80% of the cases where the fetus is healthy (only quoting your stat, since it is not cited I'm not sure of its validity), the mother is not. Women do not choose intact D&E because they changed their minds about pregnancy but because there are severe health complications for one of the parties involved.

It can be hard to sort through all the misinformation and gruesome scare tactics that have been promoted over the past 30 years by so-called pro-lifers, they have done a tremendous job of confusing people with leaps of "logic" that allow people like Mike, otherwise pro-choice, to be less critical in their thinking. There is an enormous difference between 1) a woman determining the timing and spacing of children and the decisions families make every day about whether or not to use contraception, and if it fails, whether or not they are equipped emotionally, financially and in every other way to accept the responsibility for raising a child if an unintended pregnancy is created; and 2) a very difficult decision made late in a pregnancy that has been chosen to terminate it because of health concerns of either the mother or the fetus. Of course, five Catholic men in robes but no funny hats just made that decision for every woman in a country whose First Amendment to the Constitution demands freedom of religion (no one should be compelled to follow the dictates their church teaches), thus endangering the health and lives of women everywhere.

Mike, we're glad you are a supporter of this site. Our very existence is a result of the misinformation and leaps of "logic" that social conservatives put forth and that are easy to confuse. They have been masterful at muddling the medical, scaring the vulnerable, stigmatizing women and confusing reality.

Good luck to you, your wife and family. May you never be in the position to make difficult life decisions that many women have to every day.

Be the change you seek,

Scott Swenson, Editor

Submitted by Scott Swenson, RH Reality Check on May 16, 2007 - 8:18am.

Mike, you keep saying how you care about women, but your moral disapproval of their private decisions comes through loud and clear. How much can you "care" about women when you don't even trust them? I suspect your care and concern for women is rooted more in what you assume should be their primary and rightful role in life - motherhood. After all, your arguments centre mostly on the fetus and its "right to life", but focusing on the fetus is just a way of subordinating the woman and her needs. Perhaps this article of mine will give you a different perspective: Let No Fetus Defeat Us!

Submitted by choice joyce on May 16, 2007 - 10:24am.

I didn't realize it was wrong to care about both....sorry. You don't know me or what I'm about. You assume that I don't trust women and that I think my wife is inferior and should just provide me with children? Well, shame on you! I thought I could come here and have an open discussion about issues that matter. I didn't know that my views had to match yours to the letter.

For your information, I have and will always be the biggest supporter of my wife and her professional career. She chooses her path...not me. And as far as your "motherhood" comment, I'd like to think that my role as a father is equally important.

I will continue to be a supporter of women's health and their right to choose when it concerns their health but I guess I'll have to find a different site to follow since only one view is allowed here...thank you for alienating me.

Submitted by Mike on May 16, 2007 - 10:54am.

to decrease the number of abortions performed in this country. As noted in Marcy's article, providers of abortion care ALREADY SHOW THEIR PATIENTS THE ULTRASOUND; as a fellow physician provider, I can vouch for this fact. Whether or not she choses to view it is her decision. The last place a moralistic legislator belongs is in the doctor's office. Have they ever talked to a patient about the risks of a vaginal delivery or a c-section? Have they ever counseled a woman about her options to treat her fibroids? Better yet, have they ever counseled a man about his options to treat his prostate cancer? No, they have not. Abortion is a surgical procedure, whose risks, benefits and alternatives should be discussed by a woman and her doctor, with no interference. Once every congressman, governor, judge and president has been through 8 years of specialty medical training, then I'll respect their opinion. Until then, mind your own business.

Submitted by docswede on May 16, 2007 - 1:02pm.

I'm not sure the name calling, rough language or hyperbole is any more attractive from men than it is from women, and its a safe bet that it doesn't help educate, inform or find common ground. Mike has expressed some commonly held views from people who are fundamentally pro-choice and who have also been influenced by the ideological manipulation of the far-right and their use ultrasounds and images to manipulate women. Hopefully this site can shed more light than heat and educate more than alienate. We need to build bridges and dispel myths more than reinforce battle lines.


Be the change you seek,

Scott Swenson, Editor

Submitted by Scott Swenson, RH Reality Check on May 16, 2007 - 5:10pm.


I was subjected to this type of treatment when I had an abortion over 12 years ago. As soon as it was learned that the ultrasound was a mandatory check up before an abortion, I became quite visibly no longer a human in the eyes of the practitioner. What this moral judgement of me resulted in was nothing short of torture...  Along with the use of freezing cold instruments, the practitioner not only turned the screen around to force me to view the embryo, they zoomed in to focus on its beating heart.  It was the cruelest thing that could have been done to me in the situation that I was in.  The motives of those who support the anti-choice agenda are based on misogyny, plain and simple. 

Submitted by Wishes to Remain Anonymous on May 17, 2007 - 12:50am.

...about the CPCs is no truly in-depth investigation, one which names centers, "counsellors", and exactly quotes misinformation, has been conducted.

At least not one on the level pro lifers have conducted on Planned Parenthood's supposed eagerness to "cover up" cases of statuatory rape. The broad statement "CPCs lie to women about abortion/birth control" is too vague and easy to tear apart. Someone needs to go out and bring back specifics on the lack of accountability at CPCs.

After all, if abortion clinics are expected to be accountable to society, CPCs shouldn't be let off the hook because they are "religious".

Submitted by ruthless1867 on May 17, 2007 - 6:39pm.