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  <updated>2008-03-13T09:03:07-04:00</updated>
  <entry>
    <title>When Body Issues Attack, Turn to Feminist Theory</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/06/18/when-body-issues-attack-turn-feminist-theory" />
    <id>http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/06/18/when-body-issues-attack-turn-feminist-theory</id>
    <published>2008-06-26T08:00:00-04:00</published>
    <updated>2008-06-25T20:54:52-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Sarah Seltzer</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Sexuality Education" />
    <category term="Women’s Rights" />
    <category term="body" />
    <category term="feminism" />
    <category term="sexual harassment" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[If it's summertime, then it's time for body issues and street harassment. In short -- it's the perfect time to dust off your feminist rage!    ]]></summary>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>

Ah, the beginning of summer. Freedom, warmth, sunshine, fresh green 
grass...and a certain kind of hell for women with body issues, which 
is to say, pretty much all of us. Yes, it's &quot;bikini-season&quot;, and in the few moments when 
women are not being exhorted to blast off our newly-exposed cellulite, 
the swelter equals street harassment paradise. To make it worse, ice 
cream, verboten by conventional diet wisdom, beckons around every corner.<a name="0.1_01000004" title="0.1_01000004"></a>  
</p>
<p>
Fortunately, for everything that makes us feel bad about ourselves, 
there's a piece of feminist literature to help remind us that the beauty 
culture does not evaluate one individual's relative worthiness, but rather 
acts as a system that afflicts and controls women as a group.<a name="0.1_01000006" title="0.1_01000006"></a><a name="0.1_01000007" title="0.1_01000007"></a>
</p>
<p>
And we are a group. 
</p>
<p>
I've listened to fifteen year old girls from impoverished 
sections of the Bronx and from fancy buildings on Park Avenue alike who refuse 
to eat breakfast because of the calories, but then can't focus in class 
because they're starving. For all of us, as Courtney Martin says so 
well in her book, <a name="0.1_01000008" title="0.1_01000008"></a><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Perfect-Girls-Starving-Daughters-Frightening/dp/B0013L4DKS/ref=pd_sim_b_title_14" target="_blank"><em>Perfect Girls, Starving 
Daughters</em>,</a> body anxieties 
are a waste. Think of the positive energy women young and old alike 
could be exerting instead of calculating the calories in our breakfasts 
or counting the dimples behind our knees<a name="0.1_01000009" title="0.1_01000009"></a>.<a name="0.1_0100000A" title="0.1_0100000A"></a> <span class="inline inline-right"><img class="image image-preview" src="/files/images/fingernails.preview.jpg" border="0" width="266" height="199" /></span><br />

<br />
<strong>
Sin and Redemptio<a name="0.1_0100000B" title="0.1_0100000B"></a>n<a name="0.1_0100000C" title="0.1_0100000C"></a>  </strong>
</p>
<p>

As women deny themselves more and more, junk food starts to beckon like 
a forbidden doorway. When we splurge, we often simultaneously calculate 
the number of miles we'll need to put in the next day -- or perhaps, just 
the number of times we'll berate ourselves. It makes it hard to enjoy 
that cupcake<a name="0.1_0100000D" title="0.1_0100000D"></a>. 
</p>
<p>

This process  is described by Naomi Wolf in <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Beauty-Myth-Images-Against-Women/dp/0060512180/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1213457672&amp;sr=1-1" target="_blank"><em>The Beauty Myth</em>.</a> Wolf posits that for women, the dichotomy 
of food consumption and denial has replaced the process of religiously-informed 
sexual sin and atonement that once kept women in their place. That moral 
control over women's bodies faded away but it has been replaced with 
new set of judgments about what comes in and out of women's mouths<a name="0.1_0100000F" title="0.1_0100000F"></a>.
</p>
<p>
If we don't believe women should be punished for &quot;impure&quot; 
thoughts or actions, we shouldn't buy into the modern edict that eating too 
much equals a kind of wantonness. Instead, we should work to avoid 
labeling food behaviors with any moral judgment whatsoever<a name="0.1_01000010" title="0.1_01000010"></a>.<a name="0.1_01000011" title="0.1_01000011"></a> <br />
<br />
<strong>
Complicit in Capitalis<a name="0.1_01000012" title="0.1_01000012"></a>m</strong><a name="0.1_01000013" title="0.1_01000013"></a>  
</p>
<p>
Popular diet regimen Ultra Slim-Fast is made by Nestle, purveyors of 
Crunch bars and other candy. Nestle wants us to have it both ways--eat 
crunch bars, feel bad, buy Slim-Fast and then go off the wagon and eat 
more Crunch bars<a name="0.1_01000014" title="0.1_01000014"></a>.
</p>
<p>

In other words, capitalism wants us to hate ourselves<a name="0.1_01000015" title="0.1_01000015"></a>. 
</p>
<p>
In her book of media criticism, <a name="0.1_01000016" title="0.1_01000016"></a><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Where-Girls-Are-Growing-Female/dp/0812925300/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1213457594&amp;sr=1-1" target="_blank"><em>Where the Girls Are</em>,</a> Susan J. Douglas has a chapter about 
how capitalism manipulated the rhetoric of feminism to suck women into beauty culture, by advertising beauty products as creating strong, 
firm, bodies, and through the rise of the hyper-technical, foreign-word enhanced 
labels on skin products (for instance, &quot;advanced biotechnique micro-bead technology 
from the doctors at the Weripyouoff institute in Zurich&quot;). 
</p>
<p>
The diet industry is a racket, and there's been great pushback against 
it in the blogosphere. If diets worked, we'd all use them, be skinny 
and then the companies would go out of business.  They're not that benevolent. 
We shouldn't be going on diets, buying their books, or otherwise indulging 
the cycle<a name="0.1_01000018" title="0.1_01000018"></a>.<a name="0.1_01000019" title="0.1_01000019"></a> <br />
<br />
<strong>
Women's Bodies as Public Property<a name="0.1_0100001A" title="0.1_0100001A"></a></strong>
</p>
<p>
&quot;Lookin' good!&quot; 
</p>
<p>
What woman hasn't heard these words as she 
hurries down the street on a hot day? We all know that <a name="0.1_0100001C" title="0.1_0100001C"></a><a href="http://www.mysistahs.org/features/harassment.htm" target="_blank">being harassed</a> has little to do with whether we are, in fact, 
lookin' good (it happens when we're wearing sweatpants and tube tops 
alike) and all to do with the fact that we appear to be female.  In reality, 
this kind of behavior is about power and entitlement, not about our 
individual bodies. But it can feel humiliating to be singled out in 
public that way<a name="0.1_0100001D" title="0.1_0100001D"></a>. 
</p>
<p>
There's little we can do to combat street harassment on an individual 
level other than <a name="0.1_0100001E" title="0.1_0100001E"></a><a href="http://hollabacknyc.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">holla back</a> or ignore it. But it <em>does</em> help to contextualize 
what's happening to us -- to remember that in the eyes of many, 
women's bodies are public property. That is why we struggle against violence 
and rape, and for our reproductive rights. The idea that a woman's bodily 
integrity is not a basic right is mind-boggling -- but then again, street 
harassment gives us daily proof<a name="0.1_0100001F" title="0.1_0100001F"></a>.
</p>
<p>
So the next time someone whistles, we should get mad on behalf of ourselves, 
along with the women who have been denied their right to choose and 
live freely, who are all suffering under the same weird conception that 
our bodies are NOT our own. <a href="http://www.feministing.com/archives/009287.html">As the public service announcements on the Boston transit system proclaim</a>, in the voice of a woman who has been harassed on the subway, &quot;I'm not the one who should feel ashamed.&quot; Righteous rage feels better than shame<a name="0.1_01000020" title="0.1_01000020"></a>.<a name="0.1_01000021" title="0.1_01000021"></a>  
</p>
<p>
<strong>A Concession to the Patriarch<a name="0.1_01000022" title="0.1_01000022"></a>y</strong><a name="0.1_01000023" title="0.1_01000023"></a> 
</p>
<p>
Truthfully, it would be hard for many of us to live if we fought off 
every single expectation about our appearances. One idea Amanda Marcotte 
and Jessica Valenti have articulated in their <a name="0.1_01000024" title="0.1_01000024"></a><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1580052266/ref=cm_cr_pr_product_top" target="_blank">feminist</a> <a name="0.1_01000025" title="0.1_01000025"></a><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Other-Double-Standards-Every-Should/dp/1580052452/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1213457368&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank">primers</a> is that instead of castigating ourselves and 
each other for occasionally capitulating to the beauty/diet industry, 
we have to accept the concessions we make to the patriarchy in order 
to survive. For some women, it's extra time at the gym. For others, 
it's high heels or mascara<a name="0.1_01000026" title="0.1_01000026"></a>. 
</p>
<p>
 But why not see our choices for what they are -- little things that make 
us more comfortable in a superficial, sexist world -- instead of as &quot;empowering&quot; 
or &quot;selling out&quot; or anything else with a value attached to 
it<a name="0.1_01000027" title="0.1_01000027"></a>?<a name="0.1_01000028" title="0.1_01000028"></a> <br />

</p>
<p>
So this summer, let's ditch our issues of <em>Shape</em> and <em>Glamour</em>, and pick 
up our dog-eared feminist manifestos instead, and help <a name="0.1_01000029" title="0.1_01000029"></a><a href="http://ourbodiesourblog.org/blog/2008/05/28_days_to_a_bikini_mind.php" target="_blank">train our minds</a> to reject the ridiculousness of our image-focused 
culture<a name="0.1_0100002A" title="0.1_0100002A"></a>.<a name="0.1_0100002B" title="0.1_0100002B"></a> <br />

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  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>RH Reality Interview: Feminist Filmmaker Tackles HIV Epidemic Among Black Women</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/06/18/gender-inequality-fuels-hiv-epidemic-all-us" />
    <id>http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/06/18/gender-inequality-fuels-hiv-epidemic-all-us</id>
    <published>2008-06-19T08:00:00-04:00</published>
    <updated>2008-06-25T09:46:01-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Sarah Seltzer</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Sexuality Education" />
    <category term="STI/HIV/AIDS Prevention" />
    <category term="Women’s Rights" />
    <category term="abstinence-only" />
    <category term="black women&#039;s health" />
    <category term="comprehensive sexuality education" />
    <category term="HIV/AIDS" />
    <category term="women and HIV" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<!--paging_filter--><!--paging_filter-->Emily Abt, director of the documentary "All of Us," talks to RH Reality Check's Sarah Seltzer about the HIV epidemic among black women, gender inequality and what men will get out of the film.    ]]></summary>
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<font face="Verdana" size="2">
Emily Abt, a feminist filmmaker, and Mehret Mandefro, studying to be 
a doctor, met in London when they were both on Fulbright scholarships. 
Emily later turned to Mehret and two of her HIV-positive patients--Chevelle 
and Tara--to star in a documentary film about the </font><a name="0.1_01000003" title="0.1_01000003"></a><a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/articles/A3318-2005Feb6.html" target="_blank"><font face="Verdana" size="2" color="#000080"><u>epidemic of AIDS among African 
American women</u></font></a><font face="Verdana" size="2">. All of 
the women involved in the film realized that cultural and social misogyny 
takes a personal toll, and that regardless of their background, women 
who have internalized sexist beliefs are in danger of being ill-equipped 
to protect themselves from the disease. After hearing Chevelle introduce 
a ten minute trailer of the film at a downtown reading last month, RH Reality Check's Sarah Seltzer 
called Emily, who's already busy on her next feature film, to talk about 
the lessons she learned making &quot;</font><a name="0.1_01000004" title="0.1_01000004"></a><a href="http://www.allofusthemovie.com/" target="_blank"><font face="Verdana" size="2" color="#000080"><u>All of Us</u></font></a><font face="Verdana" size="2">.<a name="0.1_01000005" title="0.1_01000005"></a>&quot;<a name="0.1_01000006" title="0.1_01000006"></a> <br />
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<a name="0.1_01000007" title="0.1_01000007"></a><strong>SS: After working on a series of films with feminist themes, 
what made you want to tackle HIV as your next topic?</strong><a name="0.1_01000008" title="0.1_01000008"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_01000009" title="0.1_01000009"></a> <br />
EA: I'm very much of a feminist filmmaker! That word sometimes gets dropped 
in press coverage, but I wear that title proudly. What inspired me is 
that Mehret and I found more similarities than you might think between 
our own behavior, our peers' behavior and the behavior of women who 
were becoming infected. The 
film is about women's risky behavior in the bedroom and the social forces 
that often create that, or are behind that<a name="0.1_0100000A" title="0.1_0100000A"></a>.</font>
</p>
<p>
<font face="Verdana" size="2"><strong>SS:</strong> <a name="0.1_0100000C" title="0.1_0100000C"></a><strong>So you believe giving women power is crucial to stopping 
the spread of disease?</strong><a name="0.1_0100000D" title="0.1_0100000D"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_0100000E" title="0.1_0100000E"></a> <br />
EA: Absolutely, examining gender inequity as it plays out in the bedroom 
and looking at issues of love, trust, intimacy and how those can be 
factors in the spread of this disease.<a name="0.1_0100000F" title="0.1_0100000F"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_01000010" title="0.1_01000010"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_01000011" title="0.1_01000011"></a><strong>SS: I know you mention abstinence-only policies in the 
film.  Do you think the spread of HIV among young black women can partially 
be explained by a lack of comprehensive sex ed?</strong><a name="0.1_01000012" title="0.1_01000012"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_01000013" title="0.1_01000013"></a> <br />
EA: Definitely. We end this film with a scene where Mehret and Chenelle 
go to Brooklyn to talk to teenage girls. The fact that there is no decent 
national sex ed totally inspired me, the side effects from Bush's approach 
to abstinence-only stuff. The film is very much a rallying cry for better 
sexual health education and outreach.<a name="0.1_01000014" title="0.1_01000014"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_01000015" title="0.1_01000015"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_01000016" title="0.1_01000016"></a><strong>SS: You call the completed film the &quot;emergency edition.&quot;</strong><a name="0.1_01000017" title="0.1_01000017"></a>  </font>
</p>
<p>
<font face="Verdana" size="2">EA: Yeah absolutely. HIV is the biggest cause of death for African-American 
women ages 18-35. It's unnacceptable that this </font><a name="0.1_01000019" title="0.1_01000019"></a><a href="http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/topics/aa/resources/factsheets/aa.htm" target="_blank"><font face="Verdana" size="2" color="#000080"><u>statistic</u></font></a><font face="Verdana" size="2"> doesn't merit more public outcry and attention.  
When making the film we kept thinking that we'd get scooped, that other 
filmmakers and journalists would get the word out. We kept expecting 
the New York Times Magazine would do a cover story. That never happened, and 
it still hasn't happened, even though it has taken us four years to make the film. It's 
kind of sad.</font>
</p>
<p>
<font face="Verdana" size="2">My last film was about the human impact of welfare reform. That 
film did very well. Meanwhile, &quot;All of Us&quot; hasn't gotten picked up by a 
network. We're going to see it through, we're going to do a theatrical 
release in September<a name="0.1_0100001A" title="0.1_0100001A"></a>. <br />
<a name="0.1_0100001B" title="0.1_0100001B"></a><a name="0.1_0100001C" title="0.1_0100001C"></a><strong> <br />
SS: Did the hoopla surrounding race vs. gender in the election frustrate 
you as you saw that this problem, facing African-American women, was totally ignored during the debates?</strong><a name="0.1_0100001D" title="0.1_0100001D"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_0100001E" title="0.1_0100001E"></a> <br />
EA: The media in general want to simplify things, we get these kind of dichotomies. 
This film is specifically about the disproportionate risk that black women 
face, but there's more here. It relates to all women.<a name="0.1_0100001F" title="0.1_0100001F"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_01000020" title="0.1_01000020"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_01000021" title="0.1_01000021"></a><strong>SS: The film was originally titled Mehret. Why did you change 
it to &quot;All of Us&quot;? How does that parallel journey of the 
film?</strong><a name="0.1_01000022" title="0.1_01000022"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_01000023" title="0.1_01000023"></a> <br />
EA: We had to make sure that audience members didn't walk away thinking 
it wasn't about them, that it was just about people who were already 
at risk. The two patients in the film had faced a lot of abuse and domestic 
violence and drug abuse. It was important to us to also look at Mehret's 
personal life, given that she's Harvard-educated, promoting the film 
in a way that demonstrated its universal issues.<a name="0.1_01000024" title="0.1_01000024"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_01000025" title="0.1_01000025"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_01000026" title="0.1_01000026"></a><strong>SS: What influenced the decision to go to Ethiopia and 
look at HIV there as part of the filming?</strong><a name="0.1_01000027" title="0.1_01000027"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_01000028" title="0.1_01000028"></a> <br />
EA: That was a perk of having Mehret as a subject. She was Ethiopian and 
had always returned there, and she has a commitment to doing HIV related 
work in Africa. There were real parallels between what's happening to 
women there and here and in the inner city. It's not the same, but there 
were more parellels than you would think.<a name="0.1_01000029" title="0.1_01000029"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_0100002A" title="0.1_0100002A"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_0100002B" title="0.1_0100002B"></a><strong>SS: What was it like working with the women in the film 
on a daily basis? </strong><a name="0.1_0100002C" title="0.1_0100002C"></a>  </font>
</p>
<p>
<font face="Verdana" size="2">EA: Sometimes it was difficult. I  definitely cried a bit and asked a lot 
of personal questions. Sometimes they didn't like that.<a name="0.1_0100002E" title="0.1_0100002E"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_0100002F" title="0.1_0100002F"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_01000030" title="0.1_01000030"></a><strong>SS: You filmed some happy, almost fairy-tale moments, 
like Chevelle's wedding.</strong><a name="0.1_01000031" title="0.1_01000031"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_01000032" title="0.1_01000032"></a> <br />
EA: It was very important to show both the joy and pain in subjects. Like 
Chevelle always says, there is life after HIV.  You can live with 
the virus, and it's not necessarily a death sentence.<a name="0.1_01000033" title="0.1_01000033"></a>  </font>
</p>
<p>
<font face="Verdana" size="2"><a name="0.1_01000035" title="0.1_01000035"></a><strong>SS: Since Mehret is training to be a doctor and the film 
shows her interacting with her patients, do you think the film might 
be used in the medical field?</strong><a name="0.1_01000036" title="0.1_01000036"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_01000037" title="0.1_01000037"></a> <br />
EA: Yes. We're doing really well with educational sales, and some of the 
institutes that have purchased it are med schools. I definitely think 
some people think it should be used in medical school curricula and the like. 
It could change the nature of how doctors interact with HIV patients 
because it's<a name="0.1_01000038" title="0.1_01000038"></a> different from normal relationships.  Doctors know their patients for years and see them 
so often.<a name="0.1_01000039" title="0.1_01000039"></a> <br />
<a name="0.1_0100003A" title="0.1_0100003A"></a> <br />
<strong>SS: </strong><a name="0.1_0100003B" title="0.1_0100003B"></a><strong>What will men get out of the film? </strong>
<a name="0.1_0100003C" title="0.1_0100003C"></a> </font>
</p>
<p>
<font face="Verdana" size="2">EA: One of the main messages of the film is to be sexually responsible. 
There are real costs and on the one side you have the abstinence only 
movement not explaining things. But on the other side, there's a difference 
between being sexually independent and sexually irresponsible and that's 
an important message for men too. I didn't get as much access with men 
in these women's lives as I wanted. It speaks to how taboo the subject 
is. People aren't comfortable -- it's challenging to get people 
to talk about sex in a real way, not just a sexy fun way.<a name="0.1_0100003E" title="0.1_0100003E"></a> <br />
</font>
</p>
    ]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>What&#039;s On Your Summer Reading List? Here&#039;s Our Picks!</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/06/11/whats-on-your-summer-reading-list-heres-ours" />
    <id>http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/06/11/whats-on-your-summer-reading-list-heres-ours</id>
    <published>2008-06-12T08:00:00-04:00</published>
    <updated>2008-06-12T15:24:04-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Sarah Seltzer</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Women’s Rights" />
    <category term="Bitch" />
    <category term="books" />
    <category term="Bust" />
    <category term="feminism" />
    <category term="fiction" />
    <category term="gender" />
    <category term="Pop Culture" />
    <category term="population" />
    <category term="Salon" />
    <category term="summer books" />
    <category term="Venus Zine" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[<!--paging_filter--><!--paging_filter-->Just in time for beach (or air-conditioned coffee shop) season, here is RH Reality Check's own summer book list -- a sampling of the amazing books out this spring and summer by, for, and about women.    ]]></summary>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<!--paging_filter--><p>
Word in the publishing industry is that women these days make up the majority of book buyers.  Which makes the ongoing white male (and often anti-feminist) dominance of 
prominent newspaper's book review sections and other hotbeds of the 
literary establishment a perennial thorn in feminist sides, 
<a href="http://bitchmagazine.org/article/hard-times">particularly this feminist's side</a>.
</p>
<p>
The primary reason for this 
gender imbalance is simple bias: women tend to write and read more fiction, 
which as a genre gets less space in print review sections. Meanwhile, 
male editors don't necessarily deem non-fiction books for women and about women's topics worthy of review -- unless they're 
stoking the flames of the mommy wars, that is. 
</p>
<p>
There are notable 
exceptions to this trend, but they're mostly feminist already -- particularly 
magazines like Bitch, Bust and Venus Zine and online sites like Salon.com 
and the wonderfully-titled <a href="http://bookslut.com/" target="_blank">bookslut.com</a>. 
</p>
<p>
Still, it's rare to see a 
list of books where you don't have to count the number of X chromosomes 
represented.
</p>
<p>
So just in time for beach (or 
air-conditioned coffee shop) season, here's RH Reality Check's own 
summer book list -- a very small sampling of the amazing books out this 
spring and summer by, for, and about women and gender. Happy reading! <span class="inline inline-left"><img class="image image-preview" src="/files/images/shaletann.preview.jpg" border="0" alt="Photo by Shaletann" title="Photo by Shaletann" width="224" height="149" /><span style="width: 478px" class="caption">Be a Literary Traveler! <em>Photo by Shaletann</em></span></span>
</p>
<p>
<strong>Beachy Sequels</strong> <br />
</p>
<p>
For fun but not frivolous reading, 
dip into one of the new releases by two &quot;chick-lit&quot; writers who 
are at the top of their game. Though the pink cover category can pigeonhole authors, these two writers transcend the genre's 
conventions. Both of them maintain hilarious, impressively political 
and savvy blogs (<a href="http://jenniferweiner.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"><u>Jen's</u></a> and <a href="http://alisavaldesrodriguez.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"><u>Alisa's</u></a>), and they are both are returning this 
season with sequels to their most popular books. 
</p>
<p>
Jennifer Weiner's &quot;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Certain-Girls-Novel-Jennifer-Weiner/dp/0743294254/ref=pd_sim_b_title_3" target="_blank"><u>Certain Girls</u></a>&quot; picks up years after the conclusion 
of  her previous hit &quot;Good in Bed.&quot; Weiner is one of the reigning queens of books 
in pink packaging, and the Princeton grad has a lot to say about women's 
lives. Notoriously flawed heroine &quot;Cannie&quot; returns, now trading chapter with her rebellious 13-year-old daughter.
</p>
<p>
Alisa Valdez-Rodriguez's &quot;Dirty 
Girls Social Club&quot; introduced readers to a tight-knit group independent 
Latina women on the hunt for love, sex happiness and success. Five years 
after that novel's conclusion, &quot;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Dirty-Girls-Top-Alisa-Valdes-Rodriguez/dp/031234967X" target="_blank"><u>Dirty Girls on Top</u></a>&quot; (out in July) will find the ladies 
still struggling with the same issues in the next chapters of 
their lives. 
</p>
<p>
<strong>Rock 'n' Roll Feminism</strong> <br />
</p>
<p>
Two new books put a feminine 
and feminist perspective on the heavily male-dominated narrative of 
rock'n'roll literature. 
</p>
<p>
Suze Rotolo is best known as 
the girl on Bob Dylan's arm on the iconic cover of his album, The 
Freewheelin Bob Dylan. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Freewheelin-Time-Greenwich-Village-Sixties/dp/0767926870/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1213132783&amp;sr=1-1" target="_blank"><u>A Freewheelin' 
Time</u></a>, Rotolo's 
new memoir, breaks silence of decades she's kept when it comes to 
that relationship with Dylan. But more importantly Rotolo offers a funny, 
literary history filled with poetic snapshots of her early life in New 
York as he daughter of communist Italian immigrants and a devoted activist 
herself. She also describes the limited place for women in the turbulent, 
exciting but still retrograde world of early 60s bohemia.<span class="inline inline-right"><img class="image image-preview" src="/files/images/afreewheelintime.preview.jpg" border="0" width="191" height="191" /></span>
</p>
<p>
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Girls-Like-Us-Simon-Generation/dp/0743491475/ref=pd_sim_b_title_2" target="_blank"><u>Girls Like Us: Carole 
King, Joni Mitchell, Carly Simon--And the Journey of a Generation</u></a> by Sheila Weller picks up the same 
story in its next evolution, chronicling the stirring of &quot;women's 
lib&quot; as it relates to the music and lives of three female rock icons,  
connecting their journeys to their generations struggle with feminism 
and sexuality. 
</p>
<p>
<strong>Family Affairs</strong> <br />
</p>
<p>
These female novelists, darlings 
of the New York literary set, offer new takes on contemporary American 
family values. 
</p>
<p>
&quot;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Ten-Year-Nap-Meg-Wolitzer/dp/1594489785" target="_blank"><u>The Ten Year Nap</u></a>,&quot; a new novel by Meg Wolitzer,
examines the fall-out  ten years after a certain set of overprivileged 
New York city matrons decide to give up their careers and devote themselves 
to hearth and home -- and contrasts these women with their feminist foremothers. 
Angst, betrayal, and wicked satire ensue. 
</p>
<p>
The stunningly 
talented, popular and enduring Jhumpa  Lahiri, whose novel <em>The Namesake</em> 
was one of the most celebrated in the past years, returns with a collection 
of novellas, &quot;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Unaccustomed-Earth-Jhumpa-Lahiri/dp/0307265730/ref=pd_sim_b_title_7" target="_blank"><u>Unaccustomed Earth</u></a>,&quot; exploring her favorite themes: 
parents and children, aging, immigration and identity. <br />
</p>
<p>
<strong>Politicking </strong> <br />
</p>
<p>
Everyone's favorite anticapitalist 
wordsmith Barbara Ehrenereich returns in July with  a collection of her famously 
trenchant and acerbic social commentary about the forgotten working 
Americans and more. The book is called &quot;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/This-Land-Their-Reports-Divided/dp/0805088407/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1213112579&amp;sr=1-4" target="_blank"><u>This Land Is Their 
Land</u></a><u>: 
Reports from a Divided Nation.&quot; </u> 
</p>
<p>
Salon.com's political blogger 
Glenn Greenwald's new book, &quot;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Great-American-Hypocrites-Toppling-Republican/dp/0307408027/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1213127529&amp;sr=1-1" target="_blank"><u>Great American Hypocrites</u></a>,&quot; tackles the way Republican operatives 
and the media have used the cult of John Wayne masculinity and strength, 
and gender posturing to smear worthy opponents over recent decades.<span class="inline inline-left"><img class="image image-preview" src="/files/images/thislandistheirland.preview.jpg" border="0" width="157" height="157" /></span> 
</p>
<p>
<strong>No-Nonsense Nonfiction </strong> <br />
</p>
<p>
&quot;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/More-Population-Nature-What-Women/dp/1597260193" target="_blank"><u>Population, 
Nature, and What Women Want</u></a>,&quot; 
by Robert Engelman, looks at the history of population and environmental 
issues as they intersect with women's reproductive autonomy, making 
the radical case that women's freedom is the best method for ensuring sustainability the natural world.  
</p>
<p>
Amy Richards's &quot;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/s?ie=UTF8&amp;search-type=ss&amp;index=books&amp;field-author=Amy%20Richards&amp;page=1" target="_blank"><u>Opting In: Having 
A Child Without Losing Yourself</u></a>&quot; 
is a manifesto of reconciliation between feminism and motherhood -- rather 
than re-hashing the mommy wars, she reminds readers of the progress 
women have made in making motherhood and families more equitable and 
fair -- and the progress still to be made. Laura Barcella interview Richards for RH Reality check, which you can check out <a href="/blog/2008/04/24/the-motherhood-melee-an-interview-with-amy-richards" target="_blank"><u>here</u></a>.  
</p>
<p>
<strong>Old Heroines</strong> <br />
</p>
<p>
Finally, two novelists revisit 
quintessential literary ladies of yore.  Justine Picardie's <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Daphne-Novel-Justine-Picardie/dp/159691341X/ref=sr_oe_2_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1213137562&amp;sr=1-2" target="_blank"><u>Daphne</u></a> is a hotly-anticipated 
literary mystery featuring Daphne du Maurier, the author of gothic 
thriller Rebecca, and DuMaurier's foremothers and inspiration, the very 
writerly (and very gothic) Bronte family. Irina 
Reyn's <a href="http://www.amazon.com/What-Happened-Anna-K-Novel/dp/1416558934/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1213137471&amp;sr=1-1" target="_blank"><u>What Happened to 
Anna K</u></a>, due out in August, is a retelling of Tolstoy's classic Anna Karenina set among Russian-Jewish 
immigrants in Queens. 
</p>

<p>
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NARAL's Summer Reading List For You!
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  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Sex And The City: Eww It&#039;s For Girls!</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/06/04/a-victory-our-sex" />
    <id>http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/06/04/a-victory-our-sex</id>
    <published>2008-06-05T08:00:00-04:00</published>
    <updated>2008-06-04T20:31:39-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Sarah Seltzer</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Sexuality Education" />
    <category term="Women’s Rights" />
    <category term="feminism" />
    <category term="Film" />
    <category term="Marriage" />
    <category term="motherhood" />
    <category term="Pop Culture" />
    <category term="Sex and the City" />
    <category term="working mothers" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[There was no way a two-hour film version of "Sex and the City" would live up to the complexity of the six-series-long show. But did half the characters need to be so flat, and the show's attempt at racial diversity such a misfire?    ]]></summary>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>
With a flutter of tulle and a flash of bejeweled stilettos,
women made history this weekend. We showed up at theaters, beat up <em>Indiana Jones</em>, and demanded that our
power as an audience be recognized. If only <em>Sex
and the City: The Movie</em> had lived up to the TV show that inspired the
box-office barnstorm. But that's a tall order -- this is Hollywood after all.<span class="inline inline-left"><a href="http://search.creativecommons.org/"><img class="image image-preview" src="/files/images/sexinthecity.preview.jpg" border="0" alt="Photo by Keepin&#039; On" title="Photo by Keepin&#039; On" width="177" height="236" /></a><span class="caption">Photo by Keepin' On</span></span>
</p>
<p>
Of course, the <em>SATC</em>
backlash was underway before the movie premiered: <a href="http://popwatch.ew.com/popwatch/2008/05/satc-double-sta.html#comments">eww,
it's for girls, the pundits declared</a>. But box office numbers proved the
sexist naysayers beyond wrong. It couldn't just have been Manohlo-clad,
Cosmo-swilling party gals buying tickets--there aren't that many of them.
Attendees most assuredly included dudes, moms and daughters, the un-glamorous,
and plenty of feminists. 
</p>
<p>
After all, the show's brand of feminism was as important to
its success as outlandish outfits and sexual positions. Sex and the City's
heroines make widely divergent choices <a href="http://www.barnard.edu/sfonline/hbo/montemurro_01.htm">(&quot;I choose my
choice!&quot;</a> aspiring housewife Charlotte shouts at working gal Miranda during
one memorable episode). Women viewers know it can be painful in <em>real</em> life for us to face up to those who
live differently, the Charlottes to our Mirandas. SATC allows its characters to
feel the omnipresent judgments and conflicts in women's lives, and feel them
deeply, in a way that resonates with truths about modern womanhood. But then,
as the arc or episode draws to an end, the four characters always accept each
other. That kind of unassailable sisterhood is a feminist ideal, even when
accented by silly designer shoes. 
</p>
<p>
WARNING! SPOILERS BELOW
</p>
<p>
Of course, there was no way a two-hour mainstream film would
live up to the complexity of the show, which built these themes into six
seasons and countless storylines. The film's best moments come after Carrie is
pseudo-jilted at the altar, and our four heroines spend a healthy chunk of time
onscreen together, trading the kind of insight and banter that made the show so
much fun. 
</p>
<p>
Throughout the film, all four stars remind us that they have
real acting chops, but Kim Cattrall as an older, more monogamous, and less
happy Samantha shines the brightest. Samantha's struggle between her genuine
love for her hunky movie star boyfriend and her desire to be independent and
free is actually quite poignant and multi-dimensional, and gets to the heart of
the show's themes. And Sam's biting one-liners break the onscreen tension
without sacrificing emotion, providing the best humor in the film.  &quot;Oh, honey, you made a little joke,&quot; she says to the
catatonically-depressed Carrie who has shown the energy to muster a bad
pun about her &quot;Mexicoma.&quot;  Catrall is hilarious, but she also shows how
deeply attuned these women are to each other. (So for everyone who moaned about Catrall
holding out for a better paycheck, she deserved it!). I usually prefer Miranda
to Samantha, but I thought Catrall was given the most subtle and meaty
material, and she tackled it with relish.<span class="inline inline-right"><img class="image image-preview" src="/files/images/satc_film2.preview.jpg" border="0" width="216" height="150" /></span> 
</p>
<p>
As wonderful as it felt to greet Samantha and her crew, and
as much as the audience at my screening laughed, sobbed, and hollered at the
screen, the movie had some big disappointments. The first one, which has been
widely noted, was the subplot with Jennifer Hudson, <a href="http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&amp;client=firefox-a&amp;ie=UTF-8&amp;q=%22magical+negro%22+%22sex+and+the+city%22">taking
the &quot;Magical Negro&quot; stereotype to a new level</a>. Hudson, as Carrie's
assistant Louise, waltzes in, literally helps Carrie clean up her
post-breakdown mess, gives her a special &quot;love&quot; keychain, and then disappears
back to St. Louis <a href="http://diaryofananxiousblackwoman.blogspot.com/2008/06/taming-of-shrews-my-review-of-sex-and.html">once
Carrie doesn't need her anymore</a>. Despite truly gargantuan acting efforts by
both Sarah Jessica Parker and Hudson during their scenes together, it shocks me
that the producers and writers didn't try harder to throw some window dressing up around Louise's
tokenization (memo: it's not that tough: give her some sex scenes, some talent
beyond organizing white women's lives), even if they wouldn't put the effort into turning her character into someone real.  But mere window dressing wouldn't be close to enough.  It may have seemed daunting to create three-dimensional secondary
characters in a two hour film, but shouldn't the filmmakers be smart
enough to realize what an unfortunate pattern they were playing into? 
</p>
<p>
The film's second significant disappointment was in its portrayal of the characters
of Miranda and Charlotte. Both characters, more realistic New Yorkers than
their counterparts, actually grew during the course of the series. Miranda
transitioned from a too-tough, too-vulnerable go-getter to a more balanced and
happy person, while Charlotte let go of her dreams of porcelain domesticity and
found a nebbishy but beloved husband and an adopted daughter. In light of those histories,
both of these women <a href="http://www.slate.com/id/2192400/pagenum/2">deserved
better storylines</a> than the film gave them: is Charlotte really beatifically
content with the life of an Upper East Side wife? Can't Miranda ever be given a
moment to be proud of her achievements without snapping, or being punished, as
a result of them? 
</p>
<p>
It's no surprise that the movie didn't live up to the show,
nor is it a surprise that it was such a huge hit anyway. Women, and men of color, are inured to enjoying films with problematic elements, because otherwise we'd
never see movies at all. Despite my own critiques, it was exhilarating to be surrounded by mostly women and hearing the laughter, tears and cheering. Let's
hope that the triumph of this film, combined with that of <em>Juno,</em> means that <a href="http://www.alternet.org/reproductivejustice/86939/">there will more smart
movies for women</a>. But more importantly, let's hope that it gives <em>Sex and the City II</em>, and other movies of
its ilk, license to be more risky, to be more real, and to include racial diversity
that's more than just a gesture. 
</p>    ]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>K, Thx 4 the Info: Sexual Health Goes Viral</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/05/22/k-thx-4-info-sexual-health-goes-viral" />
    <id>http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/05/22/k-thx-4-info-sexual-health-goes-viral</id>
    <published>2008-05-27T05:00:00-04:00</published>
    <updated>2008-05-27T08:18:00-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Sarah Seltzer</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Contraception" />
    <category term="Sexuality Education" />
    <category term="STI/HIV/AIDS Prevention" />
    <category term="health information" />
    <category term="health promotion" />
    <category term="new media" />
    <category term="new technologies" />
    <category term="sexual health" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[As new media tools gallop across income groups and geographical areas, so do sexual health educators' efforts to capitalize on them.    ]]></summary>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>
Texting, instant-messaging and social networking are so
popular among teens that the shorthand has infiltrated American culture -- from
lol to cu l8r.
</p>
<p>
But beyond <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2006/12/24/AR2006122400909.html">giving
teens their own lingo</a>, lots of health experts are seeing this technology as
a massive opportunity to <a href="http://www.boston.com/business/healthcare/articles/2008/05/18/the_results_are_in_and_youre_going_to_be_fine/?page=2">spread
information about sexual health resources and facts</a>, and answer questions
about the often private conundrums that young people face. 
</p>
<p>
In California, ISIS has launched a text-messaging program called <a href="/sextextssf.org">SexInfo</a>,
which enables kids to use a coded text message to get resources. For instance,
teens can text &quot;1&quot; if their condom breaks, or &quot;2&quot; to find out about STDs. And in
New York, a
group of obstetricians and gynecologists are testing the effectiveness of text
and cellphone reminders as a way of helping women adhere to their
contraception. 
</p>
<p>
Last month, Kaiser Family Foundations and MtvU partnered to
launch <a href="http://www.posornot.com/">PosorNot</a>, a
virtual game and online community that helps erase the stigma around HIV
infection. The game also spreads information on testing and resources for those
who have the disease. It's modeled, cheekily, after the degrading viral
sensation &quot;hot or not&quot; -- but that seems to have gotten the kind of attention a
blander site might not garner. 
</p>
<p>
These are just several examples of dozens of hotlines,
websites, cellphone services and more that are springing up to spread sexual
health information around the globe. Using technology to promote health
education is hardly new, but as new media tools gallop across income groups and
geographical areas, so do efforts to capitalize on them, particularly since the
private but interactive nature of technology suits the issue of sexual health. 
</p>
<p>
&quot;Everyone has questions about
their sexual health, reproductive health, sexuality, relationships. Everyone
doesn't have places to ask those questions,&quot; says Deb Levine, president of
Internet Sexuality Information Services (ISIS), who has been working to
integrate technology and sexual health for almost two decades. &quot;New media
provides this sense of anonymity, comfort, and privacy, but at the same time
people can really find community and discuss issues.&quot; 
</p>
<p>
<strong>Texting For Success</strong>
</p>
<p>
Levine and ISIS conceived of <a href="http://www.isis-inc.org/sexinfo.php">SexInfo</a> when they noticed the
ubiquitous presence of cellphones in California
teens' hands. They partnered with the San Francisco <a href="http://www.sfdph.org/dph/comupg/healthliv/phase/teens/">Department of
Public Health</a>, and got local organizations that worked with kids to help
with the process, as well as talking to teens themselves. In the first 25 weeks
of this year, 4,500 teens accessed the service, texting in numbers that stood
for particularly popular questions they had about sex, such as finding out
about STDs or info on pregnancy testing.
</p>
<p>
Since SexInfo's launch, ISIS has labored to make the interface simple and
compatible with the media teens already love and the most pressing concerns they
have, based on surveys done before the launch. &quot;The most important thing is
that we give them a place to voice concerns, to interact with them on their
terms,&quot; says Levine. &quot;It's not just experts answering questions, but experts
saying ‘what are your questions?'&quot; 
</p>
<p>
Isis' efforts to advertise the program ranged
from flyers and bus shelter ads to getting a popular local hip-hop artist to
help spread the world -- but their community partnerships with clergy, juvenile justice
groups, and health educators were particularly vital.  They plan to spread the program, with
variations, to DC and Toronto
within the next year, and further after that.
</p>
<p>
<strong>The Buzz on Sticking to Contraception</strong>
</p>
<p>
On the other side of the country, a group of doctors at Columbia
Presbyterian hospital recently conceived of a similar idea.  Says Dr. Paula Castano, an ob/gyn at the
hospital: &quot;It was a combination of myself and other
clinicians in our practice noticing when they asked routine medical questions
such as when was your last menstrual period, patients would pull out their
cellphones to check calendars.&quot;
</p>
<p>
Realizing that patients were
latching on quickly to new technology, Castano and her colleagues saw a chance
to use the trend - reminders via cellphone - to prevent
unplanned, unwanted pregnancies. They did an initial survey in 2005 to decide
whether a clinical trial on the topic was feasible, with promising results. They surveyed women of all ages in four inner-city family planning
clinics, a racially diverse group of women with incomes largely below the
poverty level. They found that 77% of women under 20 used a cellphone, and
almost 90% of those used text messages. The survey subjects expressed interest
in the idea of text messaging as a way of helping them adhere to contraceptive
methods.
</p>
<p>
Castano and her colleagues are <a href="http://clinicaltrials.gov/ct2/show/NCT00677703?rcv_s=04%2F30%2F2008&amp;count=1000&amp;show_desc=Y">currently
working on a clinical trial</a> to explore the usefulness of text reminders on
contraceptive adherence, which isn't easy for any woman but can be particularly
difficult for women in distressed circumstances. 
</p>
<p>
&quot;Cell phone use is skyrocketing,&quot;
she says. &quot;And even though users have gone up, the monthly bill has stayed the same.&quot; 
</p>
<p>
<strong>Challenging Stigma, Virtually</strong>
</p>
<p>
Using pop culture to endorse
do-good initiatives is nothing new for the folks at Mtv U, Mtv's college
station. Their viral &quot;Darfur Is Dying&quot; game snagged the attention of their
longtime partners at <a href="http://www.kff.org/">Kaiser Family Foundation</a>,
who hoped to do something similar with AIDS-related issues. The folks at Kaiser
realized that their target audience had shifted the media they consumed, and
are &quot;not always watching TV or looking at billboards or listening to radio.&quot; Rather, says Meredith Mishel, senior program officer at Kaiser,
&quot;they're gaming.&quot;
</p>
<p>
Kaiser <a href="http://www.kff.org/hivaids/phip043008nr.cfm">joined forces with Mtv U and
Poz magazine</a>, the <a href="/poz.com">magazine</a> for those living with HIV
and AIDS, and sponsored a contest to design a game that would both combat
stigma and spread health information. From the contests, the seeds for PosorNot, which
launched April 31 with fanfare from pop artists like Will.i.am and Fall Out
Boy, were sown.
</p>
<p>
PosorNot features a group of
incredible people -- Mishel is full of grateful praise for their courage and conviction -- who have agreed to create surfable online profiles.  Based only on appearance and a few initial
details, participants are asked to guess whether these people have HIV or not,
in the process learning to question their own assumptions about who is at risk for the disease.
After they click through, users learn more about those who are affected by HIV
either directly or indirectly, and are pointed to information about the disease
and testing. 
</p>
<p>
The relative security of the online interface,
combined with the deeply personal experience of seeing human stories in front
of them, enables a more thorough self-examination process. Younger generations tend to know there's something inappropriate about voicing their
own assumptions when it comes to HIV. But without voicing those assumptions,
it's hard to have them debunked -- which makes the beauty of an online, anonymous game obvious.  
</p>
<p>
But more than just fostering
personal discovery, the site provides constant opportunities to send
users towards information on getting tested. In just one April day, they sent
the entire month's sixth-highest number of visitors to the CDC's HIV <a href="http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/">page</a>.
</p>
<p>
&quot;People are staying for a while,
exactly what we're hoping they'd do,&quot; says Caroline Herter, a program associate
at Kaiser.
</p>
<p>
<strong>Ring It Up</strong>
</p>
<p>
Clearly, the use of technology to spread health info in the US is on the
rise in a major way. But in other countries, where poorer infrastructure leads
to an increased reliance on cellphones -- or where better technology introduced
cellphones earlier -- the implications are equally exciting. 
</p>
<p>
The
UN Foundation and Vodafone recently <a href="http://www.unfoundation.org/vodafone/communications_publication_series.asp">released
a report</a> including multiple case studies of groups using cellphones to
improve health conditions around the globe. 
SexInfo was spotlighted as one such intervention, but their
case studies included NGOs using cellphone technology in Nigeria, South
Africa, Argentina
and beyond. In these countries as well as in the US, the benefits from using
technology are the same: efficiency, anonymity, a chance to explore the wider
world, and interaction with already beloved technology. In the near future, the
buzz of phones or pings of a new e-mail may offer more than a social hello -- they can also provide vital,
life-altering health information around the globe.
</p>    ]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Retrograde &quot;Iron Man&quot; Hits the Big Screen</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/05/14/stuck-iron-age-retrograde-iron-man-hits-big-screen" />
    <id>http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/05/14/stuck-iron-age-retrograde-iron-man-hits-big-screen</id>
    <published>2008-05-15T08:00:00-04:00</published>
    <updated>2008-05-15T01:04:32-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Sarah Seltzer</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Women’s Rights" />
    <category term="Film" />
    <category term="Pop Culture" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[Given the alarmingly sexist and racist undercurrents rearing their heads in this presidential election, it's not illogical to look at "Iron Man" and see a reflection, and perpetuation, of prejudices that just won't die.    ]]></summary>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>
Superhero movies attract an eager audience whether
they're good, bad, or ugly. But these days, filmmakers aim to make such
surefire blockbusters works of art; hence, the trend of hiring Oscar-worthy
actors like Christian Bale, the late Heath Ledger, and, most recently, Robert
Downey, Jr., to don the new generation of power suits and brood convincingly
while they kick butt. 
</p>
<p>
It's a shame that the re-worked, edgier superhero genre has
little place for women or people of color, relegating them to the same
second-tier status one might have expected in vintage films. 
</p>
<p>
<em>Iron Man</em>, which
dominated the box office in recent weeks, is an <a href="http://secondinnocence.blogspot.com/2008/05/iron-man-review-spoilers-spoilers_12.html">egregious
offender</a>. In a zippy two hours, the film trots out <a href="http://profbw.wordpress.com/2008/05/07/iron-man-the-summer-of-men-some-spoilers/">a
host of boring and offensive clichés</a>: the trustworthy yet bland black
buddy, the endlessly servile love interest, and the insidious band of
turban-wearing thugs. Sigh. And this is a movie that critics <a href="http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/iron_man/?critic=creamcrop#mo">loved</a>. 
</p>
<p>
The undeniably winning
Downey Jr. plays Robert Stark, a weapons-manufacturer-cum-robotics genius, who
undergoes a change of heart--and invents a super-suit--after a near-death
experience in the hills of Afghanistan. Some high speed air chases, a nemesis
with his own metal suit, and the requisite one-liners follow. 
</p>
<p>
But Downey's charm seems to come at his friends' expense. Terrence Howard's character, Rhodes, is a top military officer who
watches over Stark with a constant shake of his head. When Stark starts zipping
around clad in metal, taking justice into his own hands, Rhodes makes up a
story to placate military personnel and sends the all clear. Essentially
Stark is the &quot;<a href="http://www.avclub.com/content/feature/inventory_13_movies_featuring/2">magical
black friend</a>.&quot; He doesn't yell about his buddy's hi-jinks and
unreliability; he merely frowns, mutters, and gets over it. (Given the classic comic book plot trajectory, Howard's character should soon be playing a much
more badass part in future films, but for now, his role deserves critique.) 
</p>
<p>
Gwyneth Paltrow's Pepper Potts is also nauseatingly
one-dimensional. Literally Stark's assistant, she serves him day and night,
with drinks and devotion. She maintains his schedules, and kicks his disheveled
one-night stands out of the house. Pepper also produces a frightened whimper whenever Starks asks her to do
something dangerous, because she's worried about <em>his</em> possible death. Naturally, he develops a crush on her.
</p>
<p>
When she has to steal information off a computer and is confronted
by the villain mid-download, Pepper manages to survive by using a bewildered
look and smiling, not by sophisticated maneuvering. And as the tension mounts
towards the film's climax, watching her totter in heels to help save the day is
unnerving--at least they could have given her some boots. (Some have <a href="http://thehathorlegacy.info/iron-man-pepper-potts/">radically
disagreed</a> about Pepper.) 
</p>
<p>
Pepper's sketchy presence, like those of Katie Holmes and
Kirsten Dunst in the <em>Batman</em> and <em>Spider-Man</em> franchises, actually makes
the movie worse. These talented filmmakers need to figure out what to do with
their heroines. Here's a hint--don't have them naively fall for wicked love
interests, get used as bait by the villains, or serve the hero coffee. 
</p>
<p>
<em>Iron
Man</em>'s primary villain is a white guy in a suit, played to perfection by Jeff
Bridges. But its under-villains are a gang of standard-issue Arab
stereotypes: turbans, eyeliner, et al. They're baddies, but not smart enough to
be baddie masterminds. The level of violence Stark has provoked by providing the military with
weapons rightly puts him in a moral quandary, but the movie seems to
imply that his moral doubts kick into gear mostly because the dark-skinned
baddies got their hands on his stockpile.
</p>
<p>
These enemies are countered
by a noble, presumably Afghan doctor who saves Stark and then dies for
him. With women and minorities sacrificing themselves for him left and right,
no wonder Stark is a bit of a depressive. 
</p>
<p>
Finally, as Dana Stevens <a href="http://www.slate.com/id/2190364/">notes</a>, Iron Man's sensor-gadget,
which saves civilians from death but punishes their captors, is a jingoistic
fantasy: 
</p>
<blockquote>
	<p>
	<em>He takes out all
	the bad guys, leaving the grateful good guys standing. It's a clever and
	viscerally satisfying gag ...but it left me with a bitter aftertaste that lasted
	for the rest of the movie. How much collateral damage have we inflicted by
	trusting just such &quot;smart&quot; weapons to make moral decisions for their
	users?</em> 
	</p>
</blockquote>
<p>
Is it tired to keep complaining about militarism,
sexism and racism in the kind of crowd-pleasing, diverting movies which clearly
pull in a hefty number of women and minority viewers anyway? 
</p>
<p>
Given the alarmingly <a href="http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2008/05/double-whammy.html">sexist
and racist</a> undercurrents <a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/24588813/">rearing
their heads</a> in this presidential election, it's not illogical to look at America's number one movie and
see a reflection, and perpetuation, of prejudices that just won't die.  At this very moment, <a href="http://www.thenation.com/doc/20080128/epps">voter ID</a>, <a href="/blog/2008/05/13/domestic-gag-rule-deja-vu-all-over-again">anti-choice</a>,
and <a href="http://www.truthout.org/cgi-bin/artman/exec/view.cgi/47/16865">anti-terrorism</a>
policies continue to treat these biases as though they are reality, and that's
more frightening than any onscreen villain, even one in a mammoth iron suit. 
</p>    ]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Mothers Deserve More than One Day a Year</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/05/07/the-mother-load-mothers-deserve-more-one-day-a-year" />
    <id>http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/05/07/the-mother-load-mothers-deserve-more-one-day-a-year</id>
    <published>2008-05-08T08:30:00-04:00</published>
    <updated>2008-05-07T19:59:51-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Sarah Seltzer</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Maternal Health" />
    <category term="Women’s Rights" />
    <category term="mother&#039;s day" />
    <category term="motherhood" />
    <category term="parenting" />
    <category term="socioeconomic issues" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[If we changed society's attitudes and policies around mothering and child care, we could give a gift not just to our own moms but to all mothers this Mother's Day.    ]]></summary>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[<p>
Flowers, jewelry, cupcakes, and manicures. These are just
some of the  more clichéd gifts
American businesses want us to lavish on our mothers and grandmothers this
weekend, thanking them for everything they do for us, for all the sacrifices
they make and have made. <a href="http://www2.nysun.com/article/75922">Spas</a>
and department stores are opening their doors and slashing prices, encouraging
moms to flex their capitalist muscles and get pampered, while restaurants trot
out brunch menus and pink tablecloths, eager to tempt hungry families fete-ing
their matriarchs. Advertisements for Mother's Day &quot;events&quot; at retail outlets
show smiling, happy, relaxed mothers -- free of wrinkles, under-eye circles, etc. -- posing harmoniously with their offspring. 
</p>
<p>
There's something very wrong with this picture, and it has
little to do with Mother's Day itself (I'm looking forward to celebrating with
my mom and grandmother over a delicious brunch, as I always do).  It has to do
with the way American policymakers and corporations <a href="http://pqasb.pqarchiver.com/latimes/access/1269923701.html?dids=1269923701:1269923701&amp;FMT=ABS&amp;FMTS=ABS:FT&amp;type=current&amp;date=May+13%2C+2007&amp;author=Leslie+Bennetts&amp;pub=Los+Angeles+Times&amp;edition=&amp;startpage=M.6&amp;desc=A+Mother%27s+Day+kiss-off%3B+One+day+a+year+does+not+soothe+women%27s+anger+over+the+inequities+they+face+full+time.">make
a giant fuss over this holiday and then proceed to ignore moms</a>, or &quot;reward&quot;
them, with unfair laws, poor health care, strict maternity leave policies, and
often nonexistent options for child care. I'm hardly the first to seize on this
contradiction but it bears repeating, because issues that affect moms have a
way of fading from public view quickly. 
</p>
<p>
The phenomenon of idolize-but-ignore that afflicts moms at
this time of year is rooted in the belief that women's second-class status can be rectified with a
day of celebration and some pricey gifts -- just like on Valentine's Day. But it also comes from the perversely
American &quot;do it yourself&quot; ethos: don't expect help, even when you're doing what
advertisers and &quot;family values&quot; right-wingers remind us is the world's most
important job.
</p>
<p>
For the 364 days of the year that are not the second Sunday
in May, we live in a society poorly structured for making motherhood manageable.
Perhaps if we viewed the concept of valuing mothers as more than an opportunity
to buy more presents -- instead, seeing it is our collective responsibility -- those
smiling, happy women on the Mother's Day advertisements wouldn't be a
fantasy. 
</p>
<p>
Practically speaking, the value we put on motherhood is a
mess in this country.  Individual moms do
make absolutely heroic efforts every day; they more than rise to the challenges
foisted on them. But we see article after article about harried mothers trying
to juggle careers and family, trying to afford doctor's bills and mortgage
payments, fighting for better education and recreation in their
neighborhoods -- all things which should be theirs by right. 
</p>
<p>
We've got moms stereotyped onscreen and on TV -- either controlling
and Type A (if they're white and wealthy) or a font of understanding, wisdom
and tough love (any movie with a non-white or non-rich mom) -- but rarely
something in between.  These images are a
perverted reflection of the zeitgeist, the pressure to do all and be all that
affects women across the economic spectrum. 
</p>
<p>
We have <a href="http://www.cjr.org/essay/the_optout_myth.php">the manufactured concept of
an opt-out revolution</a>, the idea of a parade of affluent women giving up the
working life to devote themselves to hearth and home. It's merely a wishful thought on the part of a retro press
corps, but it won't die. 
</p>
<p>
We also have the &quot;Mommy Wars,&quot; an exhausting shouting match
within a usually wealthy group of women, divided between stay at home moms and
working ones. The conflict, fed by guilt and a lack of part-time or options is <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/04/27/AR2007042702043.html">overhyped
and amplified by the media, eager for catfights</a>. But the focus on the Mommy
Wars ignore the reality of most American women, who have no choice but to work. And if we had fairer policies and better daycare options, the schism
would be far less fraught. 
</p>
<p>
A different approach is possible.  Across the pond in <a href="http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/54512.php">France,</a> for
instance, parents get generous maternity and paternity leave packages,
subsidized day care and in home-childcare, and quality government-provided
health services (not to mention generous vacation time, manageable hours and
delicious food and wine!).  Somehow,
French women don't find themselves engaged in &quot;Mommy Wars&quot; -- or at least, not
wars of a magnitude that this Francophile has encountered. Most women are
allowed to balance home life and work with a considerable amount of
flexibility. Unsurprisingly, French women take advantage of this, enjoying
professional success and time with the kids. Shocking, isn't it? 
</p>
<p>
Fortunately, here in the US, there's <a href="http://www.alternet.org/reproductivejustice/84500/?page=entire">a
movement afoot to organize moms and get political</a>, including groups like the awesome <a href="/momsrising.org">MomsRising</a>. This year, women are using Mother's Day to campaign for better
childcare, flexible working hours, health coverage, family leave and more. As
they gain more and more attention and traction, we have the foundations of a
massive grassroots and powerful mom-<a href="http://www.mothersmovement.org/index.htm">movement</a>. 
</p>
<p>
As Amie Newman <a href="/blog/2008/05/06/procontrolling-your-life">pointed
out this week</a>, anti-choice policies that force women to become mothers
against their wills go hand in hand with a lack of support for them once they
do have kids. To counter this hypocrisy, reproductive justice encompasses the
belief that every woman and family has the right to raise a family with dignity
and freedom -- from deciding when and whether to have kids to having resources to
help with parenting. Changing our society's attitudes and policies so that this
is possible is a gift we can give to all mothers, not just our own.
</p>    ]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Oh, Baby: &quot;Baby Mama&quot; Misses the Mark</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/05/01/oh-baby-baby-mama-misses-mark" />
    <id>http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/05/01/oh-baby-baby-mama-misses-mark</id>
    <published>2008-05-01T09:11:21-04:00</published>
    <updated>2008-05-01T10:23:54-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Sarah Seltzer</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Maternal Health" />
    <category term="Sexuality Education" />
    <category term="Women’s Rights" />
    <category term="Baby Mama" />
    <category term="maternal health" />
    <category term="motherhood" />
    <category term="Pop Culture" />
    <category term="pregnancy" />
    <category term="surrogacy" />
    <category term="women&#039;s rights" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[ <p>In the new hit film "Baby Mama," Tina Fey and Amy Poehler break barriers but fail to bust stereotypes.</p>
     ]]></summary>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[ <p>If Tina Fey had written <em>Baby Mama</em> instead of just starring in it, it probably would have been funnier. At the very least, there would have been more  moments that capture the subtle ways women can hurt each other -- like when a store clerk tells Fey&#39;s character, Kate, who is buying a heap of expecting-mommy books, &quot;You must be having a girl -- that&#39;s why your hair is dry,&quot; and Fey recoils. Kate&#39;s not pregnant -- but she&#39;s just learned that everyone can tell that her hair is dry. </p>
<p>But beyond a vignette or two like this, there&#39;s little that&#39;s subtle in the movie, a surrogate-pregnancy caper that&#39;s about as challenging to the status quo as the Pussycat Dolls. Perhaps it&#39;s a good thing that two women stars are allowed a vehicle that pokes fun of current reproductive trends, is not clever or subversive, and <em>still</em> makes a pile of money and pleases a rabid fanbase. The ability to be stupid and still successful may mean that Fey and Poehler have vaulted into the comedy top tier along with Ferrell, Stiller et al. Send in the balloons! </p>
<p>But the other side of this triumph seems to be that now a few lucky women get to continue the tradition of insensitivity that dominates mainstream Hollywood. And so I think it&#39;s wrong for <a href="http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2008/04/25/baby_mama/index.html?source=sphere">writers like Rebecca Traister</a> to label this movie as feminist. It remains thrilling to see two female stars getting top billing for joking about their wombs, but <em>Baby Mama</em>&#39;s feminism stops there. </p>
<p>Yes, in the end <em>Baby Mama</em> has a redemptive message about friendship and not judging others based on their backgrounds, but along the way the movie sets up stereotypes about race, class, traditional family structure and even hair color, and only half-heartedly rejects these categorizations with a feel-good ending. </p>
<p>This week, <a href="http://feministing.com/archives/009080.html#comment-147859">a discussion on Feministing.com</a> centered around the film&#39;s title itself. A commenter called it a &quot;blackface&quot; title, because the humor comes from the concept of a bourgeois white woman finding herself in a so-called &quot;ghetto&quot; situation.  The title is given its own little explanatory scene when Fey&#39;s amiable black doorman, played by the talented and underutilized Romany Malco, tells her that if another woman is having her child and she (Fey) is paying the bills, than that woman is her &quot;baby mama.&quot; &quot;Ask any black man in Philadelphia,&quot; he says.  </p>
<p>Malco&#39;s character&#39;s unending font of wise and wacky advice throughout the film, and the way he exists in an undefined space between servant and friend without a life of his own, <a href="http://www.yale.edu/opa/v29.n21/story3.html">is an old-school archetype</a> that reinforces rather than undermining the problems raised by the title. The film is a product of SNL inc, and there&#39;s a longstanding tradition of <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/daniel-holloway/note-to-snl-black_b_88351.html">racial insensitivity in the SNL ranks</a> (even as it has helped launch the careers of a few notable nonwhite comedians). </p>
<p>The film&#39;s relationship with class issues is also irritatingly one-sided. Amy Poehler&#39;s character, a proverbial &quot;working girl,&quot; doesn&#39;t work, nor does she seem to have any kind of background or personality beyond crass immaturity. Her speech patterns range from hip-hop inflected, to country drawl, to surprisingly accent-less and articulate -- all without explanation.  She is culture-less. On the other hand, the film&#39;s send-up of Fey&#39;s yuppie culture is spot-on -- <em>Baby Mama</em> nails everything from raw food veganism to the sanctimoniousness of the fertility and birthing industry, to pretentious baby names.</p>
<p>But maybe the most offensive thing about the film (warning, spoilers ahead here) is that it rejects its own premise. The trailers make it seem as though it&#39;s a buddy comedy about unconventional family structures, a movie celebrating the freedom to choose having a family and a career, in a sisterhood-affirming way. But in fact, both characters essentially get punished for their surrogacy choice, only to be redeemed by the magic formula of heterosexual boinking. Slate&#39;s Dana Stevens, who has <a href="http://www.slate.com/id/2167386/">written</a> about the baby boom on screen better than any other critic, <a href="http://www.slate.com/id/2189886/">notes that,</a> &quot;For all the methods we&#39;ve invented of making babies -- in test-tubes, with turkey basters, in the wombs of other women or even trans-men -- Hollywood still prefers its leading ladies to put a rock on their finger and push one out the old-fashioned way.&quot; And yes, the fact that one leading lady is a smart brunette, the other is a ditzy, wacky blonde, and there&#39;s a bitchy mother figure hovering in the distance, all seems a bit tired as well. </p>
<p>At the conclusion of this comedy-rife weekend, I preferred <a href="http://www.racialicious.com/2008/04/28/open-thread-harold-kumar-escape-from-guantanamo-bay/#more-1492">the casual sexism</a> (of the gratuitous nudity variety) laced throughout stoner flick <em>Harold and Kumar Escape from Guantanamo Bay</em> to the race, class and gender clichés running through <em>Baby Mama</em>, female stars be damned. In Harold and Kumar, ethnic and regional stereotypes are placed forward, clearly rejected, half-shown to be true, and then proven to be false over and again, deliberately messing with viewers, and characters&#39; preconceptions and prejudices. This is hardly a perfect formula, but the folks behind <em>Baby Mama</em> could have learned a lot from it. </p>
<p>During <a href="http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2008/04/25/baby_mama/index.html?source=sphere">her interview with Traister</a>, Amy Poehler says that her feminist creed &quot;is to do what men do, which is you just assume power. You&#39;re not grateful for it.&quot; She makes an excellent point, and that&#39;s the heart of her deserved, success as a female comedian. But I for one would have liked to see Fey and Poehler seize their star power in a film that respected its audience, its premise, and even its leading ladies.</p>
     ]]></content>
  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Expelled! -- Unintelligent Design</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/04/24/expelled-unintelligent-design" />
    <id>http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/04/24/expelled-unintelligent-design</id>
    <published>2008-04-24T09:41:21-04:00</published>
    <updated>2008-04-24T08:32:37-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Sarah Seltzer</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Sexuality Education" />
    <category term="anti-choice activists" />
    <category term="evolution" />
    <category term="intellectual freedom" />
    <category term="intelligent design" />
    <category term="polit" />
    <category term="religious freedom" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[ <p>"Expelled," the anti-Darwinist polemic, and the creationist movement behind it, share goals, tactics and leaders with anti-choicers. It's a multi-pronged mission to insert fundamentalist religious principles into all areas of public life.</p>
     ]]></summary>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[ <p>&quot;<a href="http://www.expelledexposed.com/">Expelled</a>,&quot; the anti-Darwinist polemic starring Ben Stein and his famous monotone, bears the deeply-ironic subtitle: &quot;No Intelligence Allowed.&quot; Despite the fact that such an unintentionally self-insulting tagline could be attached to only a very poor film, I bought tickets, hoping it might shed light on the wingnut mentality.</p>
<p>The film, and the creationist movement behind it, are all too relevant to reproductive justice activists. This crowd shares goals and fears, tactics and leaders, with anti-choicers. It&#39;s two sides of the same coin, a multi-pronged mission to insert fundamentalist religious principles into all areas of public discourse. </p>
<p>The filmmakers themselves <a href="http://defendlife.blogspot.com/2008/04/exposes-planned-parenthood-pro-abortion.html">make that connection for us</a>; by playing ominous music and using shadows over an old Planned Parenthood poster, they indicate that in their minds, <a class="glossary-term" href="/glossary/term/122"><acronym title="family planning: Auto generated by glossary_taxonomy_nodetitle, for family planning">family planning</acronym></a> and abortion are direct outgrowths of the so-called-evil ideas of the Darwinists&#39;.  ID advocates and anti-choicers both argue that we are made in the divine image, ignoring the hard science which shows us to be highly-developed animals. Both movements encompass this denial of the randomness and fragility of life: an embryo is just a few cells, a person is just an intelligent primate. But there are plenty of people who accept that randomness and that science, and still are able to find purpose and spirituality -- and none of them were interviewed for the film. </p>
<p>The film, however, does offer a lesson on common right-wing tactics, and <a href="http://scienceblogs.com/pharyngula/2008/04/the_appropriate_responses_to_e.php#comments">good practice debunking them</a>. So let&#39;s get to it. </p>
<p><strong>Confusing &quot;Freedom&quot; With Domination!</strong></p>
<p>&quot;Expelled&quot; purports to be about academic freedom and the suppressing of same. For the first hour or so, Ben Stein walks, nay, plods, to interviews with a handful of disgruntled scientists, each of whom moans about being disciplined for teaching God -- that is, an &quot;intelligent designer&quot; -- in the science classroom. </p>
<p>But it would be hard for even the most die-hard first amendment fan to get indignant at this. Freedom of speech and thought is one thing -- trashing the foundations of one&#39;s scholarship field is another. Sure, a Renaissance English professor has the <em>freedom</em> to announce that Shakespeare sucks and we should be studying organic chemistry, but in a field which is based largely on Shakespeare, it&#39;s unlikely that this professor will advance far.  Similarly, a bio professor who attributes evolution to supernatural intelligence belongs in a theology department. </p>
<p>Departments of theology and religion exist for people to talk about God in the classroom. This system protects individuals from having to study religion if they don&#39;t wish to, while allowing religious folks the freedom to pore over scriptural interpretation to their heart&#39;s content.  But that is not enough for the folks behind &quot;Expelled.&quot; </p>
<p>A parallel is <a href="http://www.heritage.org/Research/Abstinence/BG1533.cfm">abstinence-dogmatists</a> who want religiously-inspired principles taught to all students, instead of the straight science of sex ed, even though they already have the complete freedom to instill these values in their own children, or to enroll them in a Sunday school. So when they say &quot;freedom,&quot; they mean &quot;freedom to impose their ideas on all.&quot; </p>
<p><strong>Challenging Science and Rational      Evidence!</strong></p>
<p>Towards the end of the film, Stein forgets about the &quot;academic freedom&quot; message and attempts to frantically poke holes in Darwinian natural selection itself, even confronting the poor Darwin&#39;s statue and trying to stare it down. Unfortunately, all the evidence he marshals against Darwin consists of our disgruntled scholar crew muttering about how there are some vague &quot;holes&quot; in his theories, and a videos of molecules that is too complex for Ben Stein to understand. It&#39;s nothing that can&#39;t be refuted (by those who are rational) by ten minutes of staring at the <a href="http://images.google.com/images?um=1&amp;hl=en&amp;client=firefox-a&amp;rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&amp;sa=X&amp;oi=spell&amp;resnum=0&amp;ct=result&amp;cd=1&amp;q=gorillas+bronx+zoo&amp;spell=1">gorillas at the Bronx Zoo</a>. </p>
<p>This inability to accept rational scientific evidence and the use of rumor and speculation reminds me of anti-choicers who whisper about the motivations of abortionists and promiscuous women, but refuse to confront the hard evidence that the number of <a href="http://www.guttmacher.org/pubs/gpr/10/4/gpr100402.html">abortions actually goes <em>down</em></a> when it is legal and safe and a full range of reproductive freedoms are available. </p>
<p><strong>Bringing up Hitler!</strong></p>
<p>The nastiest tactic of all. At the end of &quot;Expelled,&quot; <a href="http://richarddawkins.net/article,2488,Open-Letter-to-a-victim-of-Ben-Steins-lying-propaganda,Richard-Dawkins">Stein visits gas chambers and weeps</a>, claiming that this is what Hitler&#39;s interpretation of Darwinism has wrought. Claiming that the Holocaust was motivated by &quot;social Darwinism&quot; erases a long, sordid history of European anti-Semitism, including countless massacres and pogroms. It was this anti-Semitism, inspired by the <em>religious</em> idea that the Jews killed Christ, that informed Hitler&#39;s willing executioners, ordinary citizens who enabled the genocide machine to function. Oh, and Hitler&#39;s anti-Semitism? That was religiously-motivated too. The pseudo-science came later. </p>
<p>You know who else likes to bring up the Nazis? <a href="http://www.renewamerica.us/columns/kellmeyer/071101">Anti-choicers</a>, when they&#39;re not comparing abortion to slavery. They share Steins&#39; desire to use the most vivid horrors in Western memory to manipulate people&#39;s emotions, ignoring the fact that Nazism and slavery were systems which imposed a fanatical amount of control over individual lives and took away people&#39;s bodily autonomy -- sound familiar?</p>
<p><strong>Complaining About Religious      Marginalization in a Secular Society!</strong></p>
<p>It&#39;s hard to imagine a more ridiculous time for a movie about the poor religious fundamentalists being denied a voice than this week in America. Newspapers across the country went gaga for the Pope and afforded him more credibility than is given to most foreign presidents. Meanwhile, plenty of people stepped in to <a href="http://pandagon.blogsome.com/2008/04/20/7079/">defend fundamentalist Mormon child-rapists</a>, under the guise that they were &quot;practicing their religion.&quot; Religion is still largely given a free pass in today&#39;s climate.  </p>
<p>These points haven&#39;t addressed the <a href="http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/expelled_no_intelligence_allowed/?critic=creamcrop#mo">aesthetic atrocities</a> committed by the &quot;Expelled&quot; crew, only the factual ones. On that score, it was a manipulative, simplistic, obvious and <a href="http://www.evolutionnews.org/2008/04/expelled_critics_so_bored_they.html">boring</a> film. It <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Expelled:_No_Intelligence_Allowed#Misquotation_from_Charles_Darwin">explicitly misquoted Darwin</a> in the worst of ways and rewrote Thomas Jefferson, <a href="http://nobeliefs.com/jefferson.htm">famous Deist and anti-cleric</a>, as a good Christian. </p>
<p>But though such callousness may have been hard to watch, it&#39;s a comfort to know that the tactics of the wingnuts, no matter what science they&#39;re attacking, remain refreshingly predictable.</p>
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  <entry>
    <title>Surprise Hit or New Kind of Chick Flick?</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/04/17/surprise-hit-or-new-kind-of-chick-flick" />
    <id>http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/04/17/surprise-hit-or-new-kind-of-chick-flick</id>
    <published>2008-04-17T09:42:21-04:00</published>
    <updated>2008-04-17T08:34:51-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Sarah Seltzer</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Women’s Rights" />
    <category term="Film" />
    <category term="Pop Culture" />
    <category term="romantic comedy" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[ <p>The failure of high-budget chick flicks doesn’t prove that women don’t go to the movies anymore, but that we’ll only go if we see real women facing issues we recognize onscreen.</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[ <p>Sometimes I think Rupert Everett had a point when he <a href="http://entertainment.timesonline.co.uk/tol/arts_and_entertainment/film/article3059835.ece">compared</a> Hollywood&#39;s attitude towards gender and sexuality with that of a certain terrorist group spawned by Enemy Number One. </p>
<p>Last week, the <em>New York Times</em> ran an <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/04/09/movies/09roma.html?_r=1&amp;oref=slogin">article</a> about the problem with chick flicks, or about their imminent demise-slash-reincarnation as chick-<em>and</em>-dude flicks. Young women, it seems, aren&#39;t going to movies in droves anymore, and so high-profile filmmakers who once wooed &quot;chicks&quot; can no longer do so and make a profit. </p>
<p>The article focused on Nora Ephron, one of the pioneers of the chick flick genre, and hearkened back to &quot;Sleepless in Seattle&quot; as one of said genre&#39;s biggest icons. &quot;Sleepless&quot; is a lovely movie. And Ephron, in her heyday, was tops at writing romantic comedies. But a more interesting film, a film that might have helped given the <em>Times</em> a clearer thesis, is another film Ephron wrote: &quot;<a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0098635/">When Harry Met Sally</a>,&quot; mentioned only as an aside. </p>
<p>&quot;Harry/Sally&quot;&#39;s unexpected success and its enduring cult status really speaks to what women audiences want in their romances: realistic people in real settings having unrealistically compelling romances. &quot;Harry/Sally&quot; is infused with a New York Jewish aesthetic (the deli-munching and neuroses all prefigure <em>Seinfeld</em>) and so it roots Billy Crystal and Meg Ryan&#39;s characters in a believable world. Ryan&#39;s beauty is wrapped in a blowsy facade, with curly hair and boxy suits, and no plastic surgery to speak of.</p>
<p><span class="inline left"><img class="image img_assist_custom" src="/files/images/thechangingfaceofmegryan.img_assist_custom.jpg" border="0" alt="Meg Ryan" title="Meg Ryan" width="199" height="58" /></span>
<p>Since then, Ephron&#39;s romantic films, (and Ryan&#39;s appearances in them) have become more and more white-washed -- literally -- from  &quot;Sleepless in Seattle,&quot; to &quot;You&#39;ve Got Mail&quot; down to &quot;Bewitched,&quot; starring the barbie-like Nicole Kidman. </p>
<p>And here&#39;s another thing the article completely ignored: where Ephron has failed, other &quot;When Harry Met Sallys&quot; have emerged -- romantic films rooted in specific subcultures that have outperformed expectations. There are dozens, including &quot;Bend it Like Beckham,&quot; &quot;Monsoon Wedding,&quot; &quot;My Big Fat Greek Wedding,&quot; &quot;Once,&quot; &quot;Something New&quot; -- even, in some ways, the first &quot;Bridget Jones&quot; film. Most of these were written or directed by women, and they all feature heroines who don&#39;t fit the Hollywood ideal because they aren&#39;t glamorous, rich, or white. </p>
<p>These films, despite having romantic plots, all take place in an actual setting, whether it&#39;s LA&#39;s African-American cotillion set, London&#39;s Indian immigrant community, or Dublin&#39;s impoverished music world. </p>
<p>Yet each time one of these films does well, it&#39;s viewed as a little film that could, rather than part of pattern indicative of women moviegoers&#39; preferences. </p>
<p>The fact that these movies have been hits, while films like &quot;The Holiday,&quot; &quot;Music and Lyrics,&quot; and &quot;27 Dresses&quot; have failed to reap huge profits, should be a wakeup call to producers. These high-budget flops all feature white, ultra-skinny heroines prancing against the backdrop of suburban mansions or windowed penthouses. I know they take place in cities, or towns, but I&#39;m not sure which ones. The heroines dress fabulously and have nary a wrinkle, or an accent of any kind, and usually lack back-stories or families -- or even much personality besides a frenetic cutesiness. </p>
<p>And even when they do feature unusual characters, they ignore them. In &quot;<a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0457939/">The Holiday</a>,&quot; the camera rarely focused on the intriguing pairing of Kate Winslet and Jack Black, instead opting to linger on repeated close-ups of the clone-like Cameron Diaz and Jude Law making out.</p>
<p>Sadly these cornflake films <a href="http://blag.xkcd.com/2008/04/10/two-female-leads/">are some of the only major studio films with women leads at all,</a> leaving women viewers with few options. I just learned about the <a href="http://alisonbechdel.blogspot.com/2005/08/rule.html">Bechdel-Wallace test</a>, which asks whether movies feature two women who talk to each other about something other than men. The number of movies that pass this test is staggeringly small. </p>
<p>Rather than actually notice what we want, studio-heads scratch their heads, claim not to understand the female moviegoer, and inundate us with Judd Apatow flicks. If Apatow is the new Nora Ephron, women onscreen are screwed. At the risk of <a href="/blog/2008/04/03/dude-where-are-my-reproductive-rights">repeating myself</a>: Apatow&#39;s contributions to the genre include 1) a line about how not wearing a condom was the best decision <em>ever</em> and 2) the castigation of a guy who asks if his date is too drunk to get frisky -- he&#39;s being &quot;too sensitive&quot; (that latter bit is from the preview of this weekend&#39;s &quot;Forgetting Sarah Marshall&quot;). And yes, his non-white characters are always sidekicks. He doesn&#39;t even try and fail in the race department the way he does with gender.</p>
<p>Chick flicks succeed when they sell the idea that ordinary people can experience extraordinary love. But being ordinary doesn&#39;t just mean not being a perfect Hollywood star -- it also means not necessarily being white, straight, or rich, as work by the new group of female <em>auteurs</em> like <a href="http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0149446/">Gurinder Chadha</a>, <a href="http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0619762/">Mira Nair</a>, and <a href="http://www.imdb.com/name/nm1065402/">Sanaa Hamri</a> demonstrates. Today, interracial and same-sex romances, struggles with assimilation, and balancing new ideas about dating with cultural traditions are the issues make finding love challenging and exhilarating for American women. And movies that deal with these issues are the ones they&#39;re going to pay ten bucks to see. </p>
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  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Take Back the Screen</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/04/10/take-back-the-screen" />
    <id>http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/04/10/take-back-the-screen</id>
    <published>2008-04-10T09:45:21-04:00</published>
    <updated>2008-04-10T10:52:05-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Sarah Seltzer</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Sexuality Education" />
    <category term="Women’s Rights" />
    <category term="Film" />
    <category term="Pop Culture" />
    <category term="rape" />
    <category term="Sex Education" />
    <category term="sexual assault" />
    <category term="women&#039;s rights" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[ <p>In order to raise awareness of sexual assault, we have to look at the images of violent sexuality embedded in our popular visual culture, images that trivialize and misrepresent reality.</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[ <p>This month, college students across the country gather for marches, candlelight vigils and concerts  in honor of <a href="http://www.takebackthenight.org/">Take Back the Night</a>. They will share their own stories and speak out against unfair school and community sexual assault policies. They will express themselves in the strong terms the issue deserves: no means no, rape is never acceptable. And their voices are not alone: these activists are joining the chorus of brave women who are fighting to <a href="/blog/2008/04/08/at-war-with-ourselves-sexual-violence-in-the-military">raise awareness of sexual assault in the military</a> and the filmmakers who are shining a spotlight on the atrocities, including sexual violence, being committed <a href="http://www.hbo.com/docs/programs/thegreatestsilence/index.html">against women in Darfur</a>. </p>
<p>It&#39;s a powerful month for the movement, but I always haves to sigh over the &quot;awareness&quot; part. We shouldn&#39;t have to be raising awareness, but we always are. The problem is obviously a multifaceted one, but it stems from widespread misogyny. Our cultural arbiters have an <a href="http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/sex/new-kind-of-date-rape">inability to accept</a> acquaintance rape as part of the problem of rape, which it is. And the media has an unwillingness to pay attention when the victims of stranger rape or conflict-zone rape are anyone but white and middle-class. </p>
<p>Part of the tide we have to swim against in order to raise awareness is embedded in our popular visual culture, and the images of sexual assault and violent sexuality it produces, images that trivialize and misrepresent the truth about sexual assault. When we watch scenes of rape and attempted rape, we often tend to see the moment of the assault itself, in a highly titillating, artsy context, the same way an edgy scene of consensual sex would be filmed. Sometimes, we see rape as a mere symbol of who has the power dynamic at a particular moment-when a man holds the woman, he holds the cards, so to speak. And in most cases, movies and television rarely show the deeply traumatic aspect of rape, the unpleasant flashbacks, nightmares, physical repulsion that women feel, save for a few token tears or a gun-toting revenge plot. It&#39;s this &quot;rape culture&quot; that makes it hard to raise our voices without having to raise awareness first.</p>
<p>One of the biggest problems with the way rape is portrayed in pop culture is as a glamorous product of male desire-as  tiny step beyond the seduction and manipulation we love on soap-opera plots. One culprit in recent years has been rich-kids-drama Gossip Girl. Its first few episodes drew <a href="http://traceesioux.blogspot.com/2007/09/gossip-girl-r-p-e.html">criticism</a> on the <a href="http://thehathorlegacy.info/juxtapositions-in-scenes-of-sexual-violence/">internet</a> for interspersing and blurring scenes of attempted date rape and consensual sex, and for featuring a serial date-rapist as a standard-issue sneering villain without addressing the trauma his attempted victims would be going through. </p>
<p>Another problem with the way rape is portrayed, particularly in action movies, is as a stand-in for a power-struggle. In The 300, <a href="http://www.heroinecontent.net/archives/2007/03/rape_by_any_other_name_addendu.html">the rape of the queen of Sparta</a> is all about the competition between two men over the throne. In Kevin Costner&#39;s Robin Hood, Prince of Thieves, the Sheriff of Nottingham&#39;s abduction of Marian is a stand-in for his rivalry with Robin. </p>
<p>And finally, there&#39;s a widespread ignorance of the trauma of attempted assault. Over and over, women are victims of assault or attempted assault, they are rescued by a male protagonist, and then they <a href="http://www.digitas.harvard.edu/%7Eperspy/issues/2002/oct/backpage.html">invariably engage in some nooky with the hero</a>-Mary Jane&#39;s famous upside-down smooch with Spiderman occurred after an attempted assault, for instance. Chances are in real life these women would be heading to a police station, a hospital, or the bathroom to throw up, not towards a makeout session. </p>
<p>These are just a few of the myths about rape perpetuated in pop culture. But with all the &quot;bad&quot; scenes I&#39;ve witnessed, only two accurate and thoughtful portrayals of assault come to my mind, and both are therefore pretty painful. One is in the recent Romanian film, <em>Four Months, Three Weeks and Two Days</em>. I already <a href="/blog/2008/02/14/the-opposite-of-choice">discussed its depiction of abortion</a>, but it also showed rape in an entirely accurate light as well. The kind of rape involved in the film isn&#39;t violent rape, but rape as abuse of power. We only see the protagonist taking her shoes and socks off. Then the camera moves to her friend sitting in the bathroom, knowing what is happening, knowing her turn is next. After it is over, the victim runs into the bathroom, naked from the waist down, and turns the shower on herself with such grim ferocity that it&#39;s viscerally sickening for the audience. There is absolutely nothing sexual about this scene, no gorgeous shots of female torsos, no unbridled lust. It shows rape as what it is: an exercise in power, domination, and cruelty. </p>
<p>Another scene I recall was from corset and cleavage period drama <a href="http://www.aboutjamesfrain.com/buccaneereview.html">The Buccaneers,</a> broadcast on PBS over a decade ago (It&#39;s an adaptation of an Edith Wharton novel, and Wharton understood the oppression of women). The rape occurs within a loveless marriage of convenience, and the director takes time to zoom in the shock and horror on the victim&#39;s face, not to mention highlighting her physical pain. It also focuses on the violence and rage of the perpetrator rather than the body of the victim. Just to make it extra clear, the camera, and the victim&#39;s gaze, turn to a soft painting of lovers on the ceiling, contrasting its image of sensuality with the violence taking place beneath it. </p>
<p>The problem of course, is that both of these scenes are intensely disturbing and also realistic, and most directors must think public probably doesn&#39;t want to be confronted with such images. But it&#39;s cyclical-if media depicted rape more honestly, it could help combat <a href="http://www.suite101.com/print_article.cfm/rape_prevention_survival/83413">rape mythology</a>.  And if movie and television directors are unafraid to show more and more disturbingly honest images of violence (look at the Academy Award winners in the past two years), we can <a href="http://thehathorlegacy.info/inherent-problems-in-writing-rape-storylines/">lobby them to make rape realistic</a>, or not include it at all. </p>
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  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Dude, Where Are My Reproductive Rights?</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/04/03/dude-where-are-my-reproductive-rights" />
    <id>http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/04/03/dude-where-are-my-reproductive-rights</id>
    <published>2008-04-03T09:44:21-04:00</published>
    <updated>2008-04-03T10:14:04-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Sarah Seltzer</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Access to Abortion" />
    <category term="Contraception" />
    <category term="Maternal Health" />
    <category term="Sexuality Education" />
    <category term="STI/HIV/AIDS Prevention" />
    <category term="Women’s Rights" />
    <category term="abortion" />
    <category term="AIDS" />
    <category term="Contraception" />
    <category term="HIV" />
    <category term="maternal health" />
    <category term="Pop Culture" />
    <category term="Sexuality Education" />
    <category term="womens rights" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[ <p>Dudely subculture -- the smart-funny-cool-ironic hybrid that defines our age and has raised effective challenges to everything from Iraq war to the surveillance state -- has been too silent when it comes to the rights of women that have been so viciously been eroded in the past eight years.</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[ <p>Last weekend, in Boston for the <a href="http://www.centerfornewwords.org/wam/">Women, Action and the Media</a> conference, I met a lot of brilliant women, activists and journalists alike, and left thoroughly inspired by their amazing work. </p>
<p>But after the dust cleared, the one image I couldn&#39;t shake from my mind was a new perspective I got on a man, a man that I will always have a deep, abiding affection for, a man with whom I spend nearly every night. </p>
<p>I&#39;m speaking, of course, of Jon Stewart. </p>
<p>Jon came up during a <a href="http://pandagon.blogsome.com/2008/03/30/6972/">panel on reproductive justice</a> featuring RH Reality Checkers Emily Douglas, Amanda Marcotte, and Cristina Page along with Pro-Choice Public Education Project executive director Aimee Thorne-Thomsen. During the question and answer session, Cristina mentioned that a Daily Show staffer had dismissed the idea of her appearing on the show to promote her book, &quot;<a href="http://www.prochoicemovement.com/">How the Pro-Choice Movement Saved America</a>.&quot; The reason? The topic was &quot;too serious.&quot; And yet, Page pointed out, Stewart constantly has guests who come on to talk about Iraq, which is as serious as it gets. But somehow the Daily Show writers have managed to find ways to mix humor with biting analysis in their discussion of the war. </p>
<p>The actual answer is not that abortion is too &quot;serious,&quot; but it&#39;s that it&#39;s a serious <em>women&#39;s</em> issue, and is therefore marginalized by our misogynist society. Reproductive justice as movement is wrapped up with female bodies and female sexuality, and poses a challenge to class and race privilege. None of these concepts have been adequately absorbed by the hip, progressive movement of which Stewart is a figurehead. </p>
<p>As a friend said to me after the panel, the problem women&#39;s advocates face in trying to conquer popular media is that &quot;sexism is cool.&quot; </p>
<p>After her comment, I thought about Stewart&#39;s guests, the people who show up at the end of each show hawking a newly-released hardcover book. There&#39;s no question that most of them are men, a lot of them are men who write &quot;serious&quot; books about war, the economy and politics. And the show&#39;s (wonderful) cast is also mostly male -- Samantha Bee alone has been holding it down for her gender since I started watching the show in the 2004 election. </p>
<p>The show, I realized, is kind of a frat-house, albeit an incisive, witty, and progressive one. </p>
<p>But The Daily Show isn&#39;t the only problem -- it&#39;s just a symptom of a larger cultural illness. When Stewart&#39;s counterpart Stephen Colbert, who is more <a href="http://rawstory.com/news/2007/Jane_Fonda_fondles_Stephen_Colbert_0510.html" target="_blank">feminist-friendly</a> than most men on TV, introduced his writers after the strike, even <em>they</em> were predominantly male. The fact is that these dudes, with their scraggly hair and sneakers, pen hilarious -- and sometimes painfully cutting -- critique of every reactionary aspect of our society, and that includes anti-feminists.  Compared to the staffs at shows like Letterman and Leno, I&#39;m guessing Colbert&#39;s writers&#39; eyes are less likely to glaze over when they hear &quot;abortion&quot; or &quot;<a class="glossary-term" href="/glossary/term/133"><acronym title="Reproductive Rights: Auto generated by glossary_taxonomy_nodetitle, for Reproductive Rights">reproductive rights</acronym></a>.&quot; But it would be nice for there to be a few more women among their ranks, whose perspective might give advocating for our issues, not just making fun of those who seek to undermine them, a position of centrality within the broader progressive conversation.</p>
<p>The dudely subculture -- the smart-funny-cool-ironic hybrid that defines our age and has raised effective challenges to everything from Iraq war to onscreen taboos to the surveillance state -- has been too silent when it comes to the rights of women that have been so viciously been eroded in the past eight years (and incidentally, silent about the very real connection between the two tragedies). </p>
<p>Bill Maher offers unbelievably insightful, BS-free comments about foreign policy, and the best discourse on TV, but gets the <a href="http://shakespearessister.blogspot.com/2007/09/its-official.html">heebie-jeebies from public breastfeeding</a>, and that&#39;s just the tip of his women-bashing iceberg. </p>
<p>Meanwhile on the less political side of things, Judd Apatow, comedy&#39;s boy wonder and the <a href="http://hollywoodinsider.ew.com/2007/11/smart-list-intr.html">smartest person in Hollywood</a> <em>(</em>says <em>Entertainment Weekly</em>), is lauded for a movie that ends with the male character affirming that not wearing a condom was the best thing he ever did. Apatow has edged film forward by showing everything from a crowning baby to full-frontal male nudity, but as Katherine Heigl <a href="http://www.usmagazine.com/katherine_heigl_calls_hit_comedy_knocked_up_sexist">noted</a> (and got slammed for), he managed to challenge these conventions while <a href="http://www.slate.com/id/2179621/">setting back the status of women onscreen.</a></p>
<p>&quot;Dude&quot; culture is not just a male thing -- just spend a couple of day reading Slate&#39;s the XX factor to get an idea of how some women from a fairly liberal, funny and intellectual background, think advocating for women&#39;s rights too strongly is decidedly uncool. </p>
<p>The problem for those of us who want to make women&#39;s lives better -- through sex education,  contraception, health care and yes, safe legal abortion -- is that we&#39;re caught in a world that devalues us as people, and therefore devalues our legitimate concerns and even our health crises. </p>
<p>But the hope that we have is in the burgeoning reproductive justice framework. In its emphasis on <em>all</em> women&#39;s bodily autonomy, on the <em>entire</em> spectrum from sex-ed to contraception to children&#39;s health care, it gives us a chance to critique the right-wing&#39;s hypocrisy. The hypocrisy of claiming to love children but denying them health care, of claiming to hate abortion refusing to take realistic, practical steps to prevent it. Slowly, our culture is waking up to this absurdity, and as Amanda said at the panel, this is our moment to seize. </p>
<p>We have to attack using a two-pronged fork. By directly challenging cultural misogyny in mainstream popular media, we are paving the way for our legal and social rights. And by using the powerfully holistic framework of reproductive justice to advocate loudly for those rights, we can enable our allies -- like Stephen Colbert -- to ramp up coverage of &quot;women&#39;s&quot; issues without causing any viewers to change the channel. </p>
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  </entry>
  <entry>
    <title>Trusting Teenagers</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/03/27/trusting-teenagers" />
    <id>http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/03/27/trusting-teenagers</id>
    <published>2008-03-27T09:44:21-04:00</published>
    <updated>2008-03-27T08:41:39-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Sarah Seltzer</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Access to Abortion" />
    <category term="Contraception" />
    <category term="Sexuality Education" />
    <category term="STI/HIV/AIDS Prevention" />
    <category term="Women’s Rights" />
    <category term="abstinence-only" />
    <category term="girls" />
    <category term="In Treatment" />
    <category term="Pop Culture" />
    <category term="self esteem" />
    <category term="Superbad" />
    <category term="teenagers" />
    <category term="TV" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[ <!--paging_filter--> <!--paging_filter-->The very act of gaining knowledge can give girls a huge boost in self-esteem. But in order to enable them to gain knowledge, we first have to trust them. "In Treatment"'s character Sophie is one of television's few complex teenage girls.      ]]></summary>
    <content type="html"><![CDATA[ <!--paging_filter-->    <p>Ah, teenagers. Every single person who makes public policy was one once, but the deep irony of our nation&#39;s attitude towards the entire adolescent age group is that we treat them like a strange species, and we have ever since rock &#39;n&#39; roll and the baby boom created the teen as we know her. </p>    <p>American culture somehow can&#39;t grasp the complexity of a stage between childhood and adulthood. In our laws, we imagine our teen girls as virginal children who will eagerly kneel at the altar of abstinence-only education (yeah, right). But the media, eager to avoid nuance, portray teens as mini-adults, sexy ingénues who behave in every way like grownups, except to the backdrop of school lockers. </p>    <p>The problem is particularly magnified when it comes to teenage girls. While movies like Superbad nail the awkward posturing that make teenage guydom what it is, we have yet to see a movie about teens that focuses on girls and doesn&#39;t use them as sexy props or bland love interests. </p>    <p>That&#39;s why <a href="http://www.hbo.com/intreatment/wednesday/">Sophie, the teenage girl patient on HBO&#39;s &quot;In Treatment&quot;</a> (the first season comes to a close tomorrow, Sophie&#39;s final episode aired yesterday) is such a breath of fresh air, even though it&#39;s a painful breath. Watching Sophie&#39;s nine sessions with her therapist, Paul, is an education in what adolescence is really all about, and why we need a realistic, honest approach to dealing with the sexual, physical and emotional health of teenage girls. </p>  <p>Sophie is a particularly damaged teenager (although adolescence itself is a trauma for most who go through it), but beyond her intense personal issues, her sessions reveal the incredible range of maturities a single teen can display. At times she acts like a child: teary, whiny, petulant. She curls up in a ball on Paul&#39;s couch, or slumps in the pillows, or stretches out on the floor. Other times, she is a young lady: she pirouettes into the office, does a graceful gymnastic routine on the couch, or trades caustic wit with Paul. Sophie can be surprisingly wise -- she has a young person&#39;s ability to see right through the phoniness of adult discourse. And she&#39;s innocent; her essential nature not quite jaded.</p>    <p>And the contradictions continue. Sophie can be womanly; she walks in heels and makeup after staying up all night at a party. Usually, hidden in a hoody and jeans, she&#39;s girlish and almost asexual. </p>    <p>In short, Sophie is real. She has all the complexity of an adult and the vulnerability of a child.  And she&#39;s one of the most mesmerizing characters I&#39;ve ever seen on TV. But there&#39;s a surprising amount of <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0835434/board/flat/98539882?p=3">Sophie-hate</a> in the fan community, people who complain that she is  a &quot;brat&quot; or unruly because of her anger. This epitomizes a strain of deep, misogynistic discomfort with the emotions and decisions of  young women. The Sophie-detractors remind me of the commenters who respond to <a href="/blog/2008/03/14/4-out-of-4-teen-girls-need-better-sex-ed">posts about combatting the alarming rate of STDs among young women</a>, wondering why young women can&#39;t just not have sex. All these people seem to wish &quot;if only these girls, with their nascent sexuality and their individual agency, and their feelings and stuff, would just get out of my sight.&quot; </p>    <p>But what Paul recognizes as he helps Sophie come into her own and throw off the pain of her troubled youth is that even with her childlike qualities -- and even with a history of sexual victimization -- Sophie is not a child. She&#39;s old enough to have a deeply complicated relationship with sex. Old enough to have to make her own choices about school, gymnastics, home -- old enough to seriously attempt to hurt herself or ultimately, to choose to accept herself. Rather than being sheltered from the harsh realities of life, she needs the tools to enter adulthood safely. </p>    <p>Despite the fact that he obviously wants to protect her, Paul knows that he can&#39;t. Instead, he teaches her about how to manage her feelings, how to address the root of her anger and self-loathing. He encourages her to look after her physical and emotional well-being and uses logic to persuade her, because he respects her intellect. Paul, a flawed therapist who often crosses boundaries, is redeemed by his adept understanding of Sophie. By trusting her as a young woman and also supporting her as a mentor figure, he enables Sophie to move forward into life. </p>    <p>Would that lawmakers in DC trusted young women the way Paul trusts Sophie. As Pamela <a href="/blog/2008/03/24/from-the-frontlines-knowledge-facts-have-no-place-in-ab-only-classroom-sex-education">described it this week</a>, abstinence-only education in practice only ends up creating a culture of teens making ill-informed decisions. Knowledge -- about bodies, about boundaries, and in Sophie&#39;s case, about her own psyche -- is power. The very act of gaining knowledge can give girls a huge boost in self-esteem. But in order to enable them to gain knowledge we first have to trust them. And like the viewers who can&#39;t stand Sophie, there are far too many lawmakers who would rather push them out of view. </p><p><strong>Related Posts</strong></p><ul><li>Lara Riscol, <a href="/blog/2008/03/14/voices-from-the-sidelines">Silenced in a Sex-Obsessed Culture</a> </li><li>Pamela Merritt, <a href="/blog/2008/03/24/from-the-frontlines-knowledge-facts-have-no-place-in-ab-only-classroom-sex-education">Facts Have No Place in Ab-Only</a></li><li>Sarah Seltzer, <a href="/blog/2008/02/21/avoiding-abortion-on-the-small-screen">Avoiding Abortion on the Small Screen</a></li></ul><p>&nbsp;</p>    
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    <title>The Real Scandal</title>
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    <published>2008-03-20T09:40:20-04:00</published>
    <updated>2008-03-20T12:42:27-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Sarah Seltzer</name>
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    <category term="Election 2008" />
    <category term="Sexuality Education" />
    <category term="STI/HIV/AIDS Prevention" />
    <category term="Women’s Rights" />
    <category term="AIDS" />
    <category term="Election 2008" />
    <category term="Eliot Spitzer" />
    <category term="HIV" />
    <category term="Politics" />
    <category term="sex workers" />
    <category term="Sexuality Education" />
    <category term="women&#039;s rights" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[ <p>Until Americans, and our media, stop insisting that our male leaders be a manly and upright family fellow with a docile wife who gazes at him adoringly, we shouldn't be surprised when that spouse remains devoted in the face of infidelity.</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[ <p>Last Monday and Tuesday, the endless cable TV and online news buzz took a sharp turn away from the Hillary-Obama &quot;they said <em>what</em>?&quot; back-and-forth. Spitzergate had arrived, gift-wrapped for the media and a rabid public. The proclivities of the now-resigned New York governor held the entire country in their sordid thrall for three full days, and continue to make headlines.</p>
<p>Over the past several years, the public and the press has been unable to latch on to the obvious deceit and corruption going up to the highest levels of the Bush administration, almost as if that kind of scandal, the kind with lives lost in the balance, is too big to grasp. We can&#39;t comprehend young men sent into battle without proper equipment. And we can&#39;t even fake mass outrage when we learn about a real sex scandal -- <a href="http://www.alternet.org/reproductivejustice/78507/">the unbelievably high instance of sexual assault in the military.</a> Those controversies are too wide-reaching, too depressing for us.  But as soon as a politician commits sexual misdeeds, the impact is so measurable, so relatable to our own lives, that we seize on it. His wife! His family! What would I do in the situation?</p>
<p>But besides demonstrating our propensity to glom onto an old-fashioned sex scandal, the revelations about Spitzer have shown how deeply misogynistic currents run through our society, entwined with our conceptions of power. We adore leaders that fit a mold of tough, controlling men, whichever side of the aisle they hang out on -- and then are surprised when our &quot;cowboys&quot; or &quot;steamrollers&quot; do hyper-&quot;male&quot; things like bombing civilians or sleeping with a series of prostitutes. Maybe we need to redefine what it means to be a strong leader. </p>
<p>Spitzer&#39;s actions were especially painful for feminists and women&#39;s advocates. Here was a man beloved by women&#39;s groups, even a full-on ally of marriage equality, who wanted to enshrine <a class="glossary-term" href="/glossary/term/133"><acronym title="Reproductive Rights: Auto generated by glossary_taxonomy_nodetitle, for Reproductive Rights">reproductive rights</acronym></a> in the fabric of state law. He was supposed to be our friend. But even if he &quot;got it&quot; intellectually, there was a side to the governor that obviously got off on thinking women were his property (or, given his need to do things that were &quot;un-safe,&quot; were somehow sub-human). On the day the scandal broke, he left a conference of excited women&#39;s health activists stranded, and <a href="http://thecurvature.com/2008/03/11/an-open-letter-to-governor-eliot-spitzer/">then totally devastated</a> by the realization that the man they had counted on had left his integrity at the metaphorical threshold of the Emperor&#39;s Club.</p>
<p>Whatever the armchair psychologists assume was behind Spitzer&#39;s behavior -- arrogance, a subconscious need to self-destruct, an addictive compulsion -- he expressed that id by subjugating women, plain and simple. And he&#39;s hardly the first public servant to do so. This is a clear reflection of living in a patriarchy, a society that still equates power with hyper-virility. </p>
<p>Going to prostitutes, even those who masquerade as &quot;high-class,&quot; is less about sex than about power over women, and a sense of male entitlement. Clearly, somewhere along the road that led Spitzer through elite institutions and into the upper echelons of government, the notion that <em>all</em> women deserve respect failed to sink in -- while the notion of aggressive pursuit of authority sunk in quite well. </p>
<p>The <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/03/12/arts/television/12watc.html?8dpc">gender divide on TV between men and women</a> reacting to the scandal spoke volumes too -- several male pundits declared prostitution a victimless crime, which earned the ire of women commentators, who were focused on the plight of Spitzer&#39;s wife. Little was said about the clear victimization of the women who worked at the Emperor&#39;s Club beyond the typically <a href="http://www.nypost.com/seven/03122008/news/regionalnews/govs_gal_identified_101632.htm">sordid and slut-shaming headlines</a>.  (&quot;HO, BABY! THE LOVE GOV GAL JERSEY SHORE HARLOT WHO BROUGHT HORNY SPITZER TO HIS KNEES,&quot; is one gem.) Regardless of one&#39;s stance on the legalization of prostitution, it&#39;s impossible to deny that sex workers are one of the most ill-treated segments of society, but the idea of the young &quot;Kristin&quot; as a member of exploited subclass who was further exploited by Spitzer failed to catch on. </p>
<p>Rather, Silda was the victim whose pained face defined the scandal. Many female writers  <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/03/10/amy-ephron-on-women-wrong_n_90857.html">wondered with outrage why Spitzer&#39;s wife &quot;stood by her man&quot;</a> -- but we&#39;ve created a political system where a politicians dutiful spouse is as important as his policies. A candidate or officeholder&#39;s spouse is expected to drop everything and stand with him or her -- and most political families revolve around the patriarch, and will do so as long as men dominate politics. The <a href="http://www.thenation.com/doc/20040216/pollitt">press hated Dean&#39;s physician wife Judith Steinberg</a> and Maureen Dowd enjoys <a href="http://nytimes.com/2007/04/25/opinion/25dowd.html?_r=1&amp;oref=slogin">ragging on Michelle Obama</a>, because there&#39;s a fear with strong women that their husbands literally can&#39;t control them -- and they have independent lives that will be difficult to subsume into the first ladyship. Compare that to the free pass given to Laura Bush. Americans appear to demand a spouse who can be reigned in for the sake of the campaign and then express surprise when she remains devoted in the face of infidelity. Silda&#39;s response doesn&#39;t surprise me at all, since she&#39;s poured so much of her own intellectual energy into her husband&#39;s career, as the system demands. No wonder she wanted to help him save face, at whatever personal cost. </p>
<p>Until Americans, and our media, stop insisting that our male leaders be a manly and upright family fellow with a docile wife who gazes at him adoringly, we&#39;re endorsing an patriarchal power structure. This presidential election, and the renewed focus on gender roles it has brought up, may be a good opportunity for us to reassess the machismo that overwhelms American politics.   </p>
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    <title>A Person&#039;s a Person -- Unless She Has a Uterus?</title>
    <link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/03/13/a-persons-a-person-unless-she-has-a-uterus-abortion-doctor-suess" />
    <id>http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/03/13/a-persons-a-person-unless-she-has-a-uterus-abortion-doctor-suess</id>
    <published>2008-03-13T09:45:00-04:00</published>
    <updated>2008-03-13T09:03:07-04:00</updated>
    <author>
      <name>Sarah Seltzer</name>
    </author>
    <category term="Access to Abortion" />
    <category term="Contraception" />
    <category term="Sexuality Education" />
    <category term="abortion" />
    <category term="Contraception" />
    <category term="Doctor Suess" />
    <category term="Pop Culture" />
    <category term="Sexuality Education" />
    <summary type="html"><![CDATA[ <p>Can we stop the anti-abortion movement from co-opting the words of beloved children’s author Doctor Seuss?</p>
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    <content type="html"><![CDATA[ <p><span class="inline left"><span class="caption"></span></span>As soon as the teaser posters for the animated film adaptation of Dr. Seuss&#39; &quot;Horton Hears a Who!&quot; began showing up in the New York City subway system, I was miserable with anticipation.  Not because I dislike Dr. Seuss -- like many American kids, I was raised on his whimsical but profound picture books -- but because the anti-abortion fringe has picked up on this book as a rallying cry, particularly its refrain, &quot;a person&#39;s a person, no matter how small.&quot; </p>
<p>&quot;Horton Hears a Who!&quot; is the tale of the eponymous elephant, one of Seuss&#39; most gentle and heroic characters. He encounters the Whos of Whoville, a group of people living in a miniature world on a speck of dust. Horton must defend their existence to a group of dismissive jungle-dwellers. In the end, all the Whos join their voices together and shout, and the animals finally hear them, believe in them, and agree not to harm their infinitesimal home.</p>
<p><span class="inline left"><img class="image thumbnail" src="/files/images/Horton_Hears_a_Who_.thumbnail.jpg" border="0" alt="Horton Hears a Who" title="Horton Hears a Who" width="74" height="100" /><span class="caption"></span></span></p>
<p>The book was written in 1954, long before Roe v. Wade and the modern framework of the abortion debate. If Seuss&#39; simple rhymes do contain social commentary, they appear to be a condemnation of Cold War era paranoia. But context doesn&#39;t matter to the anti-choice crowd -- in fact a quick internet search reveals that there are many out there who believe that God spoke through the decidedly liberal Seuss&#39; pen, <em>willing</em> him to write this line that can now be used to justify a movement he didn&#39;t support. They are undeterred by Seuss&#39; widow&#39;s support for Planned Parenthood and <a href="http://www.abc.net.au/rn/arts/booktalk/stories/s1096785.htm">an interview with Seuss Scholar Philip Nel</a>, who said that the author threatened lawsuits against anti-choice groups: &quot;It&#39;s one of the ways in which Seuss has been misappropriated. He would not agree with that.&quot;  Death of the author, indeed. </p>
<p>This past Saturday a group of anti-abortion protestors filtered in to the Hollywood premiere of the &quot;Horton&quot; film, voiced by Jim Carrey, Steve Carrell and Carol Burnettt, and others. They <a href="http://www.enews20.com/news_Horton_Premiere_Ends_Up_With_Anti_Abortion_Protest_06412.html">interrupted the screening with a coordinated protest</a>, shouting during the film and then walking around with tape over their mouths. It was a bizarre stunt, onsidering the fact that most of the audience was made up of children who doubtless missed their political message, and Hollywood journalists <a href="http://www.tmz.com/2008/03/08/horton-hears-an-abortion-protest/">who made fun of them</a>. </p>
<p>But these kinds of shenanigans, while frustrating, weren&#39;t exactly shocking. Despite lawsuits and voiced disapproval from Dr. Seuss and his widow, the &quot;a person&#39;s a person no matter how small&quot; line has snowballed and is now a de facto motto for the anti-abortion movement. Just <a href="http://www.google.com/search?q=a+person%27s+a+person+no+matter+how+small&amp;ie=utf-8&amp;oe=utf-8&amp;aq=t&amp;rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&amp;client=firefox-a">google</a> the line: some pro-life sites show up above Dr. Seuss. </p>
<p>Is there anything lovers of reproductive justice (not to mention classic children&#39;s literature) can do to reclaim Dr. Seuss&#39; inspirational story, or should we content ourselves with reading more obviously lefty Seuss fare like the Lorax and the Butter Battle Book? </p>
<p>We definitely shouldn&#39;t abandon poor Horton, even if we feel stymied by his persistent misuse.  Let&#39;s start with a little basic literary analysis. The Whos are not groups of cells, after all: they are sentient, independent people with their own society, even a mayor. Their small size is a <em>metaphor,</em> you see (trust the anti-abortion crowd to take a parable literally).  Seuss is making a point about people who are different, and the ignorance that keeps others from <em>metaphorically</em> not seeing or hearing them. My guess is the kids in the audience absorbed the <em>actual</em> symbolism onscreen, the whole bit about accepting each other, more than the zealots with red tape over their mouths ever will. </p>
<p>The anti-choice protesters, incidentally, were happy to ruin the afternoon of hundreds of those kids, too busy advocating on behalf of blastocysts to pay attention to real people -- real &quot;small people,&quot; in fact.  This kind of behavior sums up the hypocrisy of a movement that would give personhood to a fertilized egg while denying health care to children and physical autonomy to women. </p>
<p>The problem is that those who are particularly proud of saying &quot;a person&#39;s a person&quot; don&#39;t care about actual persons. Unfortunately, that means any attempt at reasoned discourse about Horton&#39;s message will likely fall flat. </p>
<p>But there&#39;s plenty of inspiration that pro-choice women can get from the book on our own terms. &quot;Horton&#39;s&quot; climactic moment is when all the Whos, even Jojo the youngest and smallest, join their voices together.  At that moment, the Whos cease to be inaudible. While the book is a critique of prejudice and misunderstanding, it&#39;s also about the importance of collective action, the power of a group to make itself heard and understood. </p>
<p>So we can take away our own message and speak up as one for the rights women deserve. And to paraphrase <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Green-Eggs-Myself-Beginner-Books/dp/0394800168">another Dr. Seuss book</a>, let&#39;s tell the anti-abortion movement, which is so fond of simplistic slogans, that we don&#39;t like their hypocrisy. We do not like it in a house. We do not like it with a mouse. We do not like it here or there. We do not like it anywhere.</p>
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